Pony play
Definition
Pony play is a form of BDSM role play in which the sub (the “pony”) assumes the role of a horse or pony and the dominant acts as trainer, owner, or rider. The game revolves around body language, discipline, aesthetics, and the fantasy of human-animal transformation.
Explanation of pony play
Pony play is a rich and versatile form of role play that goes far beyond dressing up. The essence lies in temporarily letting go of human communication and assuming a new identity. The sub moves, listens, and responds like a pony: with short sounds, nods, hoof movements, or body tension. The Dominant directs, trains, and guides.
This game can be light, playful, and aesthetic – for example, with shiny harnesses, bits, tails, or elegant pony boots – but it can also be more strict and focused on discipline, with the pony performing exercises, following gestures, or completing an obstacle course.
Surrender
For many subs, pony play is about freedom within surrender: the mind becomes still, the body does the work, and a deep focus on movement and obedience emerges. For others, it’s about the eroticism of transformation, the visual power of the harness, or the psychological game between owner and pony.
It can be played as part of D/s, as a separate fetish game, or in a group during specific ponyplay events, parades, or competitions. The intensity varies from gentle role-playing to physically challenging training sessions.
Safety & considerations
Bits can cause salivation or breathing problems; only use safe materials and check regularly.
Ponyplay puts a lot of strain on the knees, back, and shoulders. Take warm-ups, pace, and breaks into account.
Some harnesses or blindfolds restrict vision; be alert to tripping, bumping, or disorientation.
No real animal equipment. Only use BDSM-suitable materials; real horse bits or reins that are too tight can be dangerous.
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