Clitoris
Definition
The clitoris is the female erectile organ that plays a central role in sexual arousal and pleasure. It contains thousands of nerve endings and is the most sensitive part of the female body. Within BDSM, the clitoris can be a source of intense pleasure as well as controlled stimulation or pain.
Explanation of the clitoris
The clitoris is much larger than the small button that is visible on the outside. Only the ti – the glans clitoridis -is visible externally, while most of it is located internally within the body. The clitoris consists of two erectile bodies that extend on either side of the vagina, along with the crura (legs) and the vestibular bulbs. During sexual arousal, this network fills with blood and swells, similar to a penis.
Anatomically, the clitoris contains more than 8,000 nerve endings, making it extremely sensitive. Stimulation can range from subtle and rhythmic to intense and painful (clit torture), depending on a person’s preference and mood. Within BDSM, the clitoris can be involved in various forms of play, such as teasing, denial, electroplay, wax play, or pain stimulation. Knowledge of anatomy is essential here: overstimulation can not only be painful but also cause temporary numbness.
Emotionally cathartic
Many submissives experience clitoral stimulation as deeply connecting and emotionally cathartic, especially when carefully administered by a Dominant. For others, it is part of control – for example, in orgasm control or edging. The combination of power, surrender, and intense physical sensation makes the clitoris a powerful focal point in erotic and BDSM experiences.
Safety & points of attention
The clitoris is extremely sensitive: do not use too much pressure or prolonged friction.
Take personal sensitivity and cycle into account; stimulation can vary from day to day.
Use lubricant to reduce friction, especially during longer sessions.
Avoid metal clamps or sharp objects unless they are specifically designed for safe use.
Overstimulation can cause temporary numbness; allow the body to rest after intense play.
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