Vanilla
DefinitionVanilla is the term used within the BDSM world to refer to sex, relationships, or people who do not engage in BDSM practices. It stands for “ordinary,” non-kinky sexual experiences. Explanation of vanilla The word vanilla is used as a friendly, non-judgmental label to distinguish between BDSM and mainstream sexuality. The metaphor comes from vanilla ice cream: the most “ordinary”
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