Complete Irrevocable Submission
Definition
Complete Irrevocable Submission (CIS) is an Anglo-American term used in BDSM to describe a lifestyle relationship in which submission is structurally and permanently embedded in everyday life. In a CIS relationship, SM is not central as a game or isolated experience, but as the foundation of the relationship and power dynamics. The submissive transfers his or her autonomy to a large extent to the Dominant, often for an indefinite period of time.
Explanation of Complete Irrevocable Submission
CIS is generally placed within the spectrum of lifestyle SM and is often compared to or linked to a 24/7 relationship. The difference lies mainly in the intention and experience. Whereas 24/7 can refer to a continuous power dynamic that, in theory, can still be adjusted or terminated, CIS emphasizes the idea of total and irrevocable surrender.
In practice, this means that decisions about the body, behavior, sexuality, and sometimes even life choices fall under the responsibility of the Dominant. Many CIS relationships begin with extensive discussions, self-reflection, and often a contract that sets out agreements, boundaries, responsibilities, and duties of care. Such a contract usually has no legal value, but serves as a moral and psychological anchor point. However, the existence of a contract is not mandatory; some CIS dynamics arise organically from trust and mutual conviction.
It is important to note that CIS is not synonymous with blindness or thoughtlessness. On the contrary, it requires a high degree of awareness, maturity, and responsibility on both sides. Precisely because the surrender is so profound, the Dominant’s duty of care is extremely high.
Safety & points of attention
CIS is one of the most intense and vulnerable forms of BDSM dynamics. Psychological safety, emotional stability, and ongoing communication are essential.
Although the term “irrevocable” suggests that the surrender is irreversible, actual consent always remains human and changeable. In healthy CIS relationships, there is therefore always an emergency brake, either explicit or implicit.
Abuse of power is closer to the surface in these types of dynamics than in game-oriented BDSM. That is why CIS is mainly seen as something for very experienced partners who know themselves and each other well.
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