COF
Definition
COF is an abbreviation for Cum on the Face and is used within BDSM, porn, and fetish contexts to refer to a sexual act or fantasy in which the man’s semen lands on the partner’s face. The term is often used as a description, agreement, or search term within adult, consensual settings.
Explanation of COF
Within BDSM, COF rarely refers solely to the physical act. The face is a very personal and visible part of the body, which is precisely why COF often has symbolic significance. Depending on the dynamic, it can represent humiliation, possession, marking, surrender, or power. In dominant-submissive relationships, COF is regularly used as part of the power dynamic, with the meaning being entirely determined by the context, intention, and mutual consent.
COF occurs in both playful, slightly erotic settings and in more explicit SM or humiliation dynamics. In some relationships, it is a one-time act, in others a recurring ritual with a clear psychological meaning. The term is also widely used in online communication, for example when discussing desires, boundaries, or fantasies.
Safety & points of attention
Although COF is often seen as harmless, there are some points to consider. Semen can get into the eyes and cause irritation.
It is important to make agreements about this in advance and to remain alert to comfort and safety.
Because the face is visible and the act can have a strong symbolic meaning, COF must always be explicitly desired and agreed upon.
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Bukkake
Cumdump
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