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DefinitionK9 refers to a form of role-playing in which a person assumes the role of a dog (canine), often with a focus on behavior, obedience, and interaction with a handler or owner. Explanation of K9 The term “K9” is derived from the English word canine, which means dog. Within BDSM and kink, it is used to describe a specific form
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DefinitionJealousy is an emotional reaction in which fear, insecurity, or a sense of loss arises when attention, intimacy, or connection with another person is shared (or potentially shared). Understanding Jealousy Jealousy is one of the most human emotions there is, and within BDSM it often takes on an extra layer of meaning. While jealousy can already be complicated in a
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DefinitionAn intake interview or preliminary interview within BDSM is a preliminary, goal-oriented conversation in which the Dominant and sub discuss expectations, boundaries, desires, health, and safety before any form of play or dynamic takes place. Explanation of the intake Interview In many ways, an intake interview is the backbone of a responsible BDSM experience. It is the moment when two
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Here is an example of what an intake form might look like. Of course, everyone will fill it out in their own specific way. It’s important to think this through carefully beforehand and include points that are important to the Dominant in question. BDSM Intake Form Name: What is your desire? FemdomSMAgeplayKinky sexMedical Sexual activities: Oral Anal Experience: Extensive Moderate
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DefinitionAn intake form within BDSM is a written document that records important information about boundaries, preferences, health, and experience in preparation for a session or dynamic. Explanation of the Intake Form While an intake interview focuses on personal interaction and the nuances of the moment, an intake form provides structure, clarity, and a written record. It is essentially the written
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DefinitionHypoxophilia is a term used to describe sexual arousal associated with the deliberate restriction of oxygen or breathing space. In practice, the term is often associated with choking play, breath control, but in medical and forensic contexts, the terms asphyxiophilia or erotic asphyxiation are more commonly used. Explanation of hypoxophilia In the context of BDSM and sexuality, hypoxophilia refers to
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