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DefinitionSaline inflation is a medical kink practice in which a sterile saline solution is injected under the skin or into a body part to cause temporary swelling. The effect is purely temporary and intended for visual, sensual, or fetish enjoyment. Explanation of saline inflation Saline inflation involves injecting a sterile saline solution into tissues via a needle or infusion, temporarily
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DefinitionA safety call is a prearranged contact moment with a trusted person (usually outside the scene) to confirm that a BDSM session, appointment, or meeting has proceeded safely. It is used for dates with new partners, online contacts, or situations in which extra security is desired. Explanation of a safety call A safety call is a simple but important safety
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DefinitionA safeword is a prearranged word or signal that a participant in BDSM play can use to immediately and unambiguously indicate that the play should stop or be modified. It is an essential tool for safety, communication, and consent. Explanation of safeword In BDSM, a safeword is an absolute basic agreement. Although play revolves around surrender, tension, power, and control,
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DefinitionSadism within BDSM is the consensual administration of pain, intensity, or stimuli for the purpose of arousal, experience, or energy exchange. It is voluntary, with mutual consent, and within clear boundaries. This is separate from the historical, non-consensual concept of sadism. Explanation of sadism Sadism is often misunderstood due to its historical meaning, originating from the Marquis de Sade. In
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DefinitionMarquis de Sade (Donatien Alphonse François de Sade, 1740–1814) was a French aristocrat, writer, and philosopher known for his explicit, violent, and taboo-breaking sexual novels. His name is the basis for the word sadism, but his work is unrelated to modern, consensual BDSM. Explanation Sade the Marquis Marquis de Sade is a controversial figure in the history of sexuality. He
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DefinitionA ruler is a flat, hard ruler (usually made of wood or plastic) that is used in BDSM as a striking instrument for sharp, direct, and linear pain stimuli. It functions as a variant within impact play, comparable to light canes or flat paddles. Explanation of ruler The ruler is often used because of its accessibility and the specific sound
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DefinitionA ruined orgasm is an orgasm in which the climax is initiated, but the actual release is prevented by removing or changing the stimulation at the last moment. The result is an incomplete, often frustrating, and intensely palpable after-sensation. Explanation of ruined orgasm A ruined orgasm deliberately plays with the moment when a sub is just about to cross the
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DefinitionA Rose Ceremony is a symbolic BDSMritual in which a red rose, a white rose, a necklace, and the blood of both Dominant and sub come together as a sign of devotion, trust, loyalty, and equal connection within a D/s relationship. It is sometimes referred to as a “BDSM marriage.” Explanation of the rose ceremony The rose ceremony is a
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DefinitionA rope bunny is a submissive who enjoys being tied up during bondage or Shibari. The term refers to someone who is the recipient of the rope and coincides with the role of a bunny. For a detailed explanation, see Bunny. More information EncyclopediaLetter R
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DefinitionRole play is a form of BDSM in which one or both partners assume a different role, identity, or situation to enhance excitement, fantasy, or a certain dynamic. The game is deliberately created and based entirely on consent and agreements. Explanation of role play Role play is one of the most versatile forms of BDSM. It gives partners the space
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