Locktober
Definition
Locktober is an annual BDSMevent in which men (usually subs) are kept chaste throughout the month of October using a chastity belt or cock cage. The name is a combination of lock (to lock up) and October. The goal is to strengthen self-control, dedication, and mental surrender within a D/s dynamic.
Explanation of Locktober
Locktober started as a playful challenge within the online chastity community, but has since grown into a global phenomenon. During this month, men wear a chastity belt at all times, the key to which is held by their Dominant or keyholder. The sub is not allowed to ejaculate during this period, which evokes intense mental focus, frustration, and obedience. For many, Locktober is not just about sexual abstinence, but about deepening the mental bond and practicing discipline.
The desire that builds up over the days can lead to a deeper form of surrender. The Dominant determines how strict the rules are: some stick to symbolic play (such as no masturbation without a belt), while others actually practice 24/7 chastity. There may also be tasks, rituals, or moments of reflection associated with it, such as daily reporting or meditation on obedience.
Safety & points of attention
A chastity belt may seem harmless, but prolonged wear can lead to skin irritation, fungal infections, friction, or pinching.
Always choose a well-fitting model made of medically safe material (such as silicone or stainless steel) and ensure regular hygiene.
Daily cleaning is essential, even with permanent closure: a short break to wash can still be within the rules if this is agreed in advance.
Check that there is sufficient blood flow and that urination is possible without pressure or cutting edges. Be careful with prolonged erections or nocturnal swelling: pain should never be permanent. If necessary, use a water-based lubricant on the edges to prevent chafing.
Psychologically, Locktober also requires care. Prolonged abstinence can intensify emotions, arouse jealousy, or, conversely, bring deep peace.
It is important that both partners consciously engage in this process, with clear communication, mutual respect, and the freedom to interrupt the game at any time. The key lies literally and figuratively in trust.
Related terms Locktober
CB
Chastity
Chastity Belt
Keyholder
No Nuts November
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