Doorbitch
Definition
Doorbitch is a term used in BDSM, particularly in the club and scene context, for a submissive or slave whose job is to wait at the door, admit visitors, and supervise on behalf of the Dominant or organization. The role combines service with responsibility and visibility.
Explanation of doorbitch
The doorbitch acts as a kind of gatekeeper. He or she opens the door, checks whether someone is welcome, reports visitors to the Dominant or organization, and ensures that rules are followed before anyone enters the room. The position is deliberately submissive and often visible to others, which reinforces the power dynamic.
Within BDSM clubs, private parties, or events, the role of doorbitch is not only practical but also symbolic. The sub is subservient to the community and to the Dominant who is in charge, thereby embodying obedience, availability, and loyalty. The role may involve dress codes, postures, or rules of conduct, but is not necessarily sexual in nature.
Being a door bitch requires trust. After all, the sub represents the boundaries and rules of another person and must act carefully in this regard. It is therefore not a non-committal role, but a function that is usually assigned to someone with experience and reliability.
Safety & points of attention
The door bitch must have clear instructions about who is and is not allowed in and how to act in case of doubt or conflict situations. Social and emotional safety play a major role here, both for visitors and for the door bitch herself.
The role must never be abused to cross boundaries, put pressure on people, or exercise personal power outside of the agreements. Protection, a clear hierarchy, and the ability to call for help are essential.
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