Endorphin
Definitio
Endorphin is a substance produced naturally by the body (neurotransmitter) that causes feelings of happiness, calmness, and pain relief. During intense BDSMexperiences, endorphins can be released, causing pain to be experienced as pleasant, numbing, or even euphoric.
Explanation Endorphins
Endorphins are natural substances produced in the brain, especially during physical exertion, stress, pain, or strong emotions. They are similar in effect to morphine and are therefore also referred to as the body’s own pain relief mechanism. In BDSM, endorphins play an important role in pain perception, surrender, and what is known as “subspace”-the dreamy, relaxed, or euphoric state that some “subs” experience during or after an intense session.
When the body experiences pain stimuli, the nervous system responds by producing endorphins. These substances dampen the pain signals and at the same time create a feeling of calm and contentment. This explains why pain in a BDSM context is not always experienced as negative. With the right dosage of stimuli, pain can even turn into pleasure. The boundary between pain and pleasure becomes blurred, creating a deep state of relaxation or euphoria.
For the Dominant, knowledge of endorphins is important in order to consciously build up the game. By allowing a session to progress gradually, the body has the opportunity to release endorphins. On the other hand, too abrupt a transition or too high an intensity can cause stress or panic. The trick is to take the body step by step into the experience, so that the sub can safely slip into that natural intoxication of surrender.
Safety & points of attention
The release of endorphins can temporarily dull the sensation of pain, but it also makes the body less alert. As a result, subs may have difficulty sensing or indicating their limits. This makes it essential for the Dominant to remain alert and recognize signs of overload, even if the sub appears “spaced out” or very calm.
After an intense session, endorphin levels can suddenly drop, causing an emotional backlash in some people – also known as subdrop. The sub then feels tired, empty, or sad for no apparent reason. This is part of the body’s natural recovery process. Good aftercare helps to ease this transition: drinking water, warmth, closeness, rest, and reassuring words can work wonders.
Endorphins make BDSM an almost meditative or spiritual experience for many. It is the body that contributes to the experience, transforming pain into relaxation and fear into trust. Those who understand this chemistry also understand better why BDSM – when experienced lovingly and consciously – can leave such a deep impression.
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