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DefinitionIn BDSM, a mindfuck is a form of play in which the Dominant consciously influences the sub’s thoughts, perceptions, or expectations in order to create confusion, tension, or surrender. It is not about physical stimuli, but about psychological manipulation and control – playing with what someone thinks is happening. Explanation of mindfuck A mindfuck is one of the most sophisticated
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DefinitionA metrosexual is a heterosexual man who pays a lot of attention to his appearance, grooming, fashion, and lifestyle, often with a refined or aesthetic look that used to be considered “feminine.” The term combines metropolitan (urban) and sexual and refers to the modern, self-aware man who values comfort and style. Explanation of metrosexual The term metrosexual became popular in
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DefinitionMilking refers within BDSM to the rhythmic and prolonged stimulation of the penis or prostate with the aim of inducing or forcing a (often controlled) orgasm and/or ejaculation. The act is also known as milking and can be performed manually, with toys, or via electrostimulation. Explanation of milking Milking is a popular practice in the world of control and chastity.
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DefinitionIn BDSM, a Mistress is a female Dominant who exercises leadership, control, and responsibility over her sub. She determines the rhythm, rules, and intensity of the experience, within a framework of trust, consent, and mutual respect. The title Mistress symbolizes female strength, wisdom, and self-aware leadership in both a physical and mental sense. Explanation Mistress The Mistress embodies the heart
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DefinitionIn BDSM, a Master is a male Dominant who exercises power, leadership, and responsibility over a sub (often a female or male submissive). The term refers not only to a role during a session, but often also to a deeper attitude to life in which care, structure, and control are central. Explanation Master The title Master has both symbolic and
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DefinitionMedical play (also known as medical role-play) is a form of BDSM in which medical procedures, instruments, or rituals are reenacted or experienced as part of erotic, psychological, or power-oriented play. The experience varies from role-playing between “doctor” and “patient” to realistic procedures such as injections, catheterization, sounding, or examination play. Explanation of medical play Medical play combines excitement, power,
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DefinitionMediFet is a contraction of medical fetish and refers within BDSM to the fascination or excitement that arises from medical themes, acts, or instruments. The experience can vary from realistic reenactments of medical examinations to symbolic rituals involving care, power, pain, or humiliation. Explanation MediFet At MediFet, everything revolves around the interplay between control, vulnerability, and trust. For many people,
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DefinitionMDLB is short for Mommy Domme / Little Boy and refers within BDSM to a form of age play or adult baby in which an adult woman (the Mommy Domme) plays the dominant, caring or corrective role towards an adult man (the Little Boy), who temporarily finds himself in a younger, dependent or playful role. The dynamic is not about
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DefinitionMistress Moriah is a leading Dutch Pro Domme, author, and educator in the world of loving and authentic BDSM. She is best known for her vision of safety, depth, and emotional connection within Femdom. Her work includes workshops, books, personal coaching, and educational projects that show BDSM as a balance between strength, vulnerability, responsibility, and love. Explanation Mistress Moriah Mistress
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DefinitionMasturbation is the self-stimulation of one’s own body, usually the genitals, for the purpose of physical pleasure or achieving orgasm. Within BDSM, masturbation can be a controlled, forbidden, or imposed part of power play, chastity training, or mental conditioning. Explanation Masturbation Masturbation is a natural and healthy expression of sexuality. It helps people get to know their bodies, release tension,
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