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DefinitionBukkake is a sexual practice in which multiple men ejaculate onto one person, usually on the face or body. Within BDSM or fetish contexts, this is often linked to themes such as humiliation, surrender, or group dynamics. Explanation of Bukkake The word bukkake originally comes from Japanese and literally means “to pour” or “to drench.” The practice became known through
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DefinitionA brown shower of chocolate shower is a fetish or BDSM practice involving feces, usually by excreting them over someone or deliberately bringing them into contact with the sub’s body. Explanation brown shower The brown shower belongs to the group of so-called scat play, in which defecation plays a central role. For some people, this has a strong erotic or
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DefinitionA brat tamer is a Dominant who specializes in dealing with brats: playful, rebellious submissives who like to challenge, tease, and push boundaries. The brat tamer enjoys channeling and guiding this energy, often with a combination of strictness, humor, and patience. Explanation of brat tamer There are many dynamics and personalities within BDSM. Brats are submissives who deliberately exhibit naughty
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DefinitionA brat is a sub or bottom who acts playfully, defiantly, or recalcitrantly toward the Dominant. This behavior is not resistance to the dynamic itself, but part of the play and tension within the relationship. Explanation of brat The term brat comes from English and literally means ‘little brat’ or ‘troublemaker’. Within BDSM, it refers to a sub who does
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DefinitionBlackmail within BDSM refers to a form of consensual non-consent play in which one party allows themselves to be blackmailed or pressured by the other. It is always an agreed and voluntary experience, in which power and dependence are central. Explanation of blackmail Blackmail play is one of the more extreme forms of psychological BDSM play. The submissive gives the
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DefinitionA branding is a permanent or temporary scar made on the skin by heating metal or other materials. Within BDSM, this is used as an extreme form of ownership marking or body decoration. Explanation of branding Branding a body is an ancient practice that we know from livestock farming, but also from human history, where it often symbolized punishment or
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DefinitionBrain drain within BDSM refers to the mental state in which a submissive completely lets go of his or her rationality and becomes completely absorbed in the experience. The mind seems to be ‘switched off’, leaving only feelings, surrender, and stimuli. Uitleg Brain drain Brain drain is often described as the moment when a submissive relinquishes all control over their
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DefinitionA bottom is the person in a BDSM session who takes on the submissive or receiving role. This can take the form of receiving pain, being restrained, carrying out orders, or simply going along with the dynamic determined by the Dominant or Top. Explanation Bottom The term bottom is used in the BDSM world to refer to the role of
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DefinitionBondage tape is a special type of tape used for bondage in BDSM. It does not stick to skin or hair, but only to itself, making it safe and versatile for tying, restraining, or decorative play. Explanation of bondage tape Bondage tape is a popular tool in BDSM because it is easy to use and offers great creative freedom. It
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DefinitionA bondage frame is a specially designed structure made of tubes or rods to which a sub can be tied with rope, cuffs, or chains. It offers countless possibilities for restraint and play in a variety of positions. Explanation of bondage frame The bondage frame is one of the most versatile pieces of furniture in BDSM. It usually consists of
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