Cashmeet
Definition
A cash meet is a physical meeting within financial domination (findom) where the main purpose is for the sub to hand over cash to the Dominant, usually a female Dominant (findomme, goddess). The core of a cash meet is the transfer of money and the experience of power, not physical or sexual play.
Explanation of cash meet
In a cash meet, the Dominant and sub meet face-to-face, often in a public location such as a shopping center, café, parking lot, or at an ATM. The public nature is a conscious choice: visibility increases the tension, the feeling of vulnerability in the sub, and the position of power of the Dominant.
The sub can bring the money with them in advance or withdraw it on the spot and then hand it over to the Dominant. The meeting is usually short and ritualistic in nature. There may be some mild humiliation or symbolic play, but the emphasis is on the moment of transfer and the confirmation of financial submission.
Typical forms
Typical forms of a cashmeet include handing over an envelope or stack of cash directly, going to an ATM together and handing over the money on the spot, or letting the Dominant go shopping while the sub pays for and carries everything. Sometimes the money is spent on something specific, such as food, grooming, shoes, or a gift for the Dominant.
A cashmeet is not a regular BDSM session and is clearly different from a paid SM appointment. Physical contact is often minimal or absent. When play does take place, it is usually limited and secondary to the financial ritual.
Safety & points of attention
Cashmeets require clear safety agreements. Public locations reduce risks, but also bring attention and social boundaries. Always agree in advance where, how long, and under what conditions the meeting will take place.
For subs, it is important to set realistic financial limits and never impulsively pay large amounts without having built up trust. For Dominants, responsibility applies in dealing with power, money, and public situations. Inform a third party about the time and place of the appointment and keep communication channels open.
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