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DefinitionDoorbitch is a term used in BDSM, particularly in the club and scene context, for a submissive or slave whose job is to wait at the door, admit visitors, and supervise on behalf of the Dominant or organization. The role combines service with responsibility and visibility. Explanation of doorbitch The doorbitch acts as a kind of gatekeeper. He or she
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DefinitionDominance within BDSM is the conscious and consensual exercise of power, leadership, and responsibility by one person over another. It involves an agreed-upon role in which guidance, decision-making, and setting boundaries are central, supported by trust and consent. Explanation of dominance Dominance is not a character trait in itself, but a role and dynamic that takes shape within a specific
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DefinitionCybersex is a form of sexual interaction that takes place entirely digitally, for example via chat, messages, audio, or video. Within BDSM, cybersex is used to shape power dynamics, eroticism, and experience without physical presence, often as part of online domination, long-distance relationships, or exploratory phases. Explanation of cybersex Within BDSM, cybersex is rarely limited to sexual stimulation alone. It
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DefinitionA codpiece is a distinctive crotch piece worn over or attached to trousers, originally intended to cover and accentuate the male genitals. In BDSM and fetish contexts, the codpiece is used as an aesthetic, symbolic, or erotic element, often made of leather, metal, or sturdy fabric. Explanation of codpiece The codpiece originated in the late Middle Ages and Renaissance, when
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DefinitionCP (Corporal Punishment) is an English term used within BDSM to refer to the administration of physical punishment, usually in the form of controlled pain stimuli such as hitting, flogging, or spanking the body. The goal is not to inflict random pain, but to use physical correction within an agreed power dynamic. For a detailed explanation, see Corporal punishment. More
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DefinitionCum dump is an explicit BDSMand fetish term that refers to an agreed role or fantasy in which a person positions themselves as a sexually available object for receiving semen, within a clearly defined and voluntary consensual context. Explanation of cum dump Within BDSM, the term cum dump is almost always used as a role designation or fantasy, not as
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DefinitionCrisco is originally an American vegetable shortening that is used in certain BDSM and fetish contexts as an improvised lubricant, particularly in fisting, fist fucking, and extreme stretching games. This refers to the product Crisco, which has been given an alternative use outside of its original food purpose. Explanation of Crisco Within BDSM, Crisco is mainly mentioned in historical and
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DefinitionCovern is a safety agreement within BDSM whereby a third person is called in beforehand to provide protection during a BDSM experience. This person acts as an external safety net and takes action when agreed contact moments fail to occur or when a pre-agreed alarm signal is given. Explanation of cover persons Cover persons are mainly used in situations involving
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