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DefinitionAsphyxiophilia is a sexual preference or paraphilia in which arousal is experienced through (temporary) restriction of breathing or oxygen supply. Within a BDSMcontext, this is sometimes referred to as breath play . This involves the idea or sensation of oxygen restriction, not actual suffocation. Explanation of asphyxiophilia Asphyxiophilia focuses on the tension between control, vulnerability, and intensification of physical sensations.
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DefinitionAromas is another term for poppers. It is a collective name for volatile, strongly scented liquids based on alkyl nitrites that are inhaled to produce a short-lived relaxing and tingling sensation. They are sometimes used during anal sex or within BDSM to help relax muscles and intensify the experience. In English-speaking countries, aromas or room aromas is often used as
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DefinitionAnolinctus or anolingus is a sexual act in which the anus is orally stimulated with the tongue and mouth. Colloquially, this is also referred to as ass licking, rimming, or rim job. Within BDSM, anolingus can be both an intimate, caring act and part of power dynamics, humiliation, or servitude. Explanation of anolinctus – anolingus Anolinctus essentially revolves around oral
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DefinitionAnal stretching is a BDSM practice in which the anus and sphincter muscles are deliberately, controlled, and gradually stretched to achieve space, relaxation, habituation, or intensification of physical and mental sensations. Explanation of anal stretching Anal stretching is not about forcing, but about time, attention, and coordination. The anus is naturally strong and sensitive, with one internal and one external
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DefinitionAlgolagnia is a psychosexual term that refers to experiencing pleasure, excitement, or satisfaction from pain, either by enduring it or by inflicting it, provided that this takes place within voluntary and conscious contexts. Explanation of algolagnia The word algolagnia is derived from the Greek algos (pain) and lagneia (lust or desire). In psychology and sexology, the term is used to
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DefinitionPunishment within BDSM is a consciously agreed form of discipline in which a Dominant takes corrective action against a submissive, with the aim of providing structure, awareness, or confirmation of the power dynamic, not to cause arbitrary harm. Explanation of punishment Punishment within BDSM differs significantly from punishment in everyday life. It is not about anger, revenge, or impulsive retaliation,
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