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DefinitionWet sex is one of the many names for water sports, golden shower or pee play is a form of sexual experience or BDSM play in which urine plays a role, for example by looking at it, feeling it, smelling it or coming into contact with it. It falls under the broader category of fetish and fluid play. For a
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DefinitionPlaying with candles and candle wax – also known as wax play – is a form of sensory play within BDSM in which warm drops of candle wax are applied to the skin of the sub. The play revolves around the interplay between heat, tension, pain, and surrender. Wax play is part of temperature play. For a detailed explanation, see
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DefinitionWater sports, golden shower, wetseks, pee play or urolagnia is a form of sexual experience or BDSMplay in which urine plays a role, for example by looking at it, feeling it, smelling it, or coming into contact with it. It falls under the broader category of fetishism and fluid play. For a detailed explanation, see pee play. More information EncyclopediaLetter
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DefinitionWaterboarding is an extreme form of breath control in which water is poured over the nose and mouth while the face is covered, creating the sensation of drowning. It is internationally recognized as a form of torture and is not suitable for BDSM play. Explanation of waterboarding Waterboarding originated as an interrogation technique and works by tricking the body’s reflex
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DefinitionA Wheel of pain or pinwheel is a small, metal BDSM instrument with a rotating wheel covered in sharp points, designed to deliver controlled, stimulating pain and skin stimulation. Also known as a “Wartenberg wheel.” For a detailed explanation, see Pinwheel. More information EncyclopediaLetter W
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DefinitionA Wartenberg wheel or pinwheel is a small, metal BDSMinstrument with a rotating wheel covered in sharp points, designed to deliver controlled, stimulating pain and skin stimulation. Also known as a “wheel of pain.” For a detailed explanation, see Pinwheel. More information EncyclopediaLetter W
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DefinitionA wannabe is someone who, within the BDSM world, pretends to be dominant, submissive, or an experienced player, without the knowledge, responsibility, experience, or maturity that comes with that role. The term is used to identify unsafe or fake profiles. Explanation of wannabe The term wannabe is mainly used within the online BDSM scene, where people sometimes pretend to be
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DefinitionWAM stands for Wet and Messy and refers to a fetish in which arousal is achieved through the use of wet or messy substances such as mud, whipped cream, oil, paint, food, or water. The experience revolves around sensation, getting dirty, playfulness, and sometimes humiliation. Explanation of WAM In WAM play, the body is the central canvas for liquids and
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DefinitionFire play is a BDSM practice in which controlled flames or heat from combustible substances are used on the skin to induce intense sensations, excitement, and mental surrender. It is a form of sensation play that requires a high level of expertise and extreme caution. Explanation of fire play Fire play is one of the more ceremonial and ritualistic forms
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DefinitionVoyeurism within BDSM refers to the consensual arousal of watching others during sexual or intimate acts, or of being watched oneself. It is always characterized by voluntariness, mutual consent, and clear boundaries. Explanation of voyeurism Contrary to the general, often negative connotation of the word, voyeurism within BDSM is an agreed-upon and completely voluntary form of erotic play. It can
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