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DefinitionSubdrop is the physical and emotional downturn that a sub may experience after an intense BDSM experience, when endorphins, adrenaline, and other “high” substances in the body subside and the body returns to a state of rest. Explanation of subdrop Subdrop often occurs a few hours to a day after a session, sometimes even after two days. During BDSM, a
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DefinitionStuffing is an extreme BDSMpractice in which one or more body orifices – usually the vagina or anus – are deliberately filled as full as possible with body-friendly objects, toys, hands, or liquids to induce an intense feeling of stretching, pressure, surrender, or humiliation. Explanation of stuffing Within the BDSM world, stuffing does not simply refer to ‘inserting something’, but
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A sub, or in full submissive, is someone who consciously and voluntarily takes on the submissive role in a BDSM relationship or experience. The submissive opens themselves up to the guidance, control, or dominance of the other person, often the dominant, and derives satisfaction, excitement, or emotional depth from this. For a detailed explanation, see submissive. More information EncyclopediaLetter S
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DefinitionStrike branding is a form of permanent body marking in which a heated metal object is placed against the skin in one quick, direct motion to create a permanent scar. Also known as “branding.” Explanation of strike branding Strike branding is one of the most intense and permanent forms of body modification within BDSM. Unlike cautery branding – where an
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DefinitionStraciatella is an informal, humorous term for coprolagnie (also known as ‘caviar’), used to describe the appearance of feces when it contains clearly visible pieces. The term does not refer to a separate kink form, but is simply an alternative, playful name used in scat-related contexts. For a detailed explanation, see coprolagnie. More information EncyclopediaLetter S
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DefinitionStingy pain is a sharp, stinging pain sensation that is felt superficially on the skin and is characterized by intensity, speed, and short, intense stimuli. Explanation of stingy pain Within BDSM, stingy pain and thuddy pain form an important distinction in the perception of pain. Stingy pain is the stimulus that “bites” immediately: fast, fierce, and sharp, as if tiny
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DefinitionSSICK stands for Safe, Sane, Informed, Consensual, Kinky: a modern BDSM guideline that emphasizes that all forms of play are experienced in a safe, sensible, well-informed, completely voluntary, and consciously kinky manner. Explanation of SSICK SSICK was developed as an extension of the well-known SSC model. Whereas SSC focuses primarily on safety, common sense, and consent, SSICK adds two important
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DefinitionSSC stands for Safe, Sane & Consensual: a commonly used ethical guideline within BDSM that emphasizes that all actions must be safe, sensible, and voluntary. Explanation of SSC SSC originated in the 1980s as a response to misunderstandings and negative perceptions surrounding BDSM. The term became a way of making it clear that BDSM between consenting adults has nothing to
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