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DefinitionQueening falls under the broader category of facesitting, in which one person sits on another’s face to receive oral gratification. The difference lies mainly in the context and connotation. Where facesitting is a general term – used for all genders – queening refers specifically to facesitting by a woman, often with an emphatic Dominant energy. The act is therefore the
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DefinitionPVC is a shiny, synthetic material (polyvinyl chloride) that is widely used in fetish and BDSMclothing because of its tight fit, reflective surface, and the sensory experience it creates. Explanation of PVC PVC clothing is often seen as a more accessible, lighter alternative to latex. It has a similar shine and appearance, but is less tight, easier to put on,
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DefinitionPussy torture is a form of BDSM pain play in which the female genitals – vulva, labia, clitoris, inner thighs – are deliberately and controlledly exposed to intense stimuli or pain. It revolves around tension, surrender, build-up, and playing with boundaries. Explanation of pussy torture Pussy torture is a broad concept that ranges from sharp sensations to deep, penetrating pressure.
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DefinitionPuppy play is a form of BDSM role play in which the sub takes on the role of a puppy and the Dominant acts as handler, trainer, or owner. It revolves around playfulness, instinct, behavior, and temporarily letting go of human language and social inhibitions. Explanation of puppy play Puppy play is one of the most playful forms of roleplay
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DefinitionPsychological play is a form of BDSM in which the Dominant uses words, suggestions, expectations, tension, seduction, and mental stimuli to influence the sub emotionally, mentally, or sensually. It is not about physical actions, but about the power of the mind. Explanation of psychological game Psychological game are one of the most subtle, but also most powerful forms of BDSM.
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DefinitionProstate milking is the rhythmic and controlled massaging of the prostate of a man, usually via the anus, with the aim of releasing prostate fluid or semen. For many men, it feels intense, deep, and highly erotic. Explanation of prostate milking Within BDSM, prostate milking is seen both as an erotic game and as part of control, surrender, or humiliation.
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DefinitionProstate massage is the gentle and targeted stimulation of a man’s prostate, usually via the anus, with the aim of relaxation, increased arousal, or a deeper sexual sensation. It does not necessarily lead to ejaculation or “milking,” but is about feeling and contact. Explanation of prostate massage Prostate massage is often seen as the gentler, more relaxed counterpart to prostate
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DefinitionThe prostate is a small gland located below the bladder in men, surrounding the beginning of the urethra. The gland plays an important role in sperm production and can evoke intense sexual sensations through anal stimulation. Explanation of the prostate The prostate is also known as the ‘male G-spot’, because pressure or massage on this gland can give many men
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DefinitionA Prince Albert (PA) is a genital piercing for men in which a ring or bar passes through the underside of the glans and exits through the urethral opening. It is one of the best-known and most commonly worn penis piercings. Explanation Prince Albert The Prince Albert is a classic genital piercing that is valued for both its aesthetic and
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DefinitionPrimal play is a form of BDSM play that focuses on instinct, primal power, and pure physicality, without fixed roles or scripts. It revolves around raw energy, impulse, playfulness, and physical interaction that feels less staged than traditional D/s dynamics. Explanation of primal play Primal play is a total experience in which people allow their ‘primitive instincts’ to take over.
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