De complete BDSM encyclopedie voor kennis, veiligheid en beleving
DefinitionOxytocin is a naturally occurring hormone that plays an important role in bonding, relaxation, trust, and the feeling of connection between people. It is also known as the “cuddle hormone.” Explanation of oxytocin Oxytocin is one of the most influential hormones in human interaction. It is released during physical touch, orgasms, prolonged eye contact, hugging, and all forms of emotional
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DefinitionOWK stands for Other World Kingdom, a former Femdomstate in the Czech Republic, founded as a kingdom completely subject to women, where female dominance was central. Explanation of OWK The Other World Kingdom (OWK) was a unique, large-scale Femdom project founded in the Czech Republic in 1996. It was set up as a matriarchal state, complete with its own queen
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DefinitionWithin BDSM, the term “owned” refers to a situation in which a submissive man or woman is officially and consciously under the care, guidance, and responsibility of a Dominant. It is a form of long-term commitment and relationship building within a D/s dynamic, in which the Dominant acknowledges that the sub is “his/hers” within the agreed context of their bond.
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DefinitionSurrender within BDSM refers to the conscious relinquishment of control, both physical and mental, by the submissive. It is a state in which a person opens themselves completely to the guidance, touch, and intention of the Dominant, supported by trust, safety, and willingness. Explanation of surrender Surrender is perhaps the most essential element of BDSM. It is not about power
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DefinitionOTK, short for Over The Knee, is a classic spanking position in which the sub lies across the lap of the Dominant. It is one of the most recognizable and intimate forms of physical dominance within BDSM, often used in spanking, discipline, and role-playing. Explanation of OTK OTK is a traditional position that existed even before the modern BDSM scene.
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DefinitionAn orgasm is the physical and emotional release that occurs when sexual tension reaches a peak. It is accompanied by muscle contractions, deep relaxation, and a brief but intense feeling of pleasure. Within BDSM, an orgasm often has a ritual or hierarchical value, as it is directly influenced by the Dominant. Explanation of orgasm An orgasm is more than a
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DefinitionOrgasm control is a form of BDSM play in which the Dominant consciously takes control over whether or not to allow an orgasm. This can mean delaying, prohibiting, enforcing, or precisely timing a climax. The sub thereby relinquishes a deep sense of sexual control. Explanation of orgasm control Orgasm control comes in various forms, all of which revolve around the
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DefinitionOral sex within BDSM refers to any form of sexual stimulation with the mouth, lips, or tongue. It can be gentle, loving, or dominant and forceful, depending on the dynamic. Within BDSM, oral sex often has a power component, because the Dominant determines how, when, and with what intensity it takes place. Explanation of oral sex Oral sex can have
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DefinitionAbduction within BDSM refers to a staged, entirely voluntary, and prearranged form of role play in which a submissive is “taken away,” restrained, or overpowered within a safe context. It involves fantasy, power play, and adrenaline, never real coercion or danger. Explanation of kidnapping Kidnapping play is one of the most intense forms of psychological role-playing. The excitement comes not
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DefinitionA spreader bar or One Bar Prison is a bondage and immobilization technique in which the wrists and ankles of the sub are secured to a single, sturdy metal or wooden bar. The bar acts as a central anchor point, keeping the body tightly aligned and severely restricting freedom of movement. For a detailed explanation, see one bar prison. More
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