Cage

Kooi

DefinitionIn BDSM, a cage is a physical device in which a sub is temporarily confined. This can range from a small metal or wooden cage to a specially designed body cage, bench or chastity cage. The cage symbolizes restriction, control, and surrender, and can be used both literally and symbolically in D/s dynamics. Explanation of the cage The cage is

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Clothespins

Knijpers

DefinitionClothespins are simple, often household items (such as clothes pegs) that are used in BDSM to administer pain stimuli by temporarily applying pressure to the skin. They are mainly used on sensitive areas such as nipples, labia, inner thighs, or scrotum, making them an accessible form of pain play or sensory play. Explanation of clothespins Clothespins are a classic example

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Knife play

Knife play

DefinitionKnife play is a form of edge play within BDSM in which knives or other sharp objects are used to create tension, fear, and excitement. The goal is rarely to actually cut, but to play with the psychological intensity and sensation of sharpness, power, and vulnerability. Explanation of knife play Knife play is one of the most intense forms of

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Kneeling

Knielen

DefinitionKneeling in BDSM is a physical posture in which the sub sits or rests on their knees as a sign of respect, submission, or obedience to the Dominant. It is a symbolic and ritualistic gesture that is both mentally and physically charged, and is often used within D/sdynamics and ceremonial contexts. Explanation kneeling Kneeling is one of the oldest and

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Clamps

Klemmen

DefinitionClamps are tools used in BDSM to temporarily squeeze parts of the body, such as nipples, labia, penis, or scrotum. They range from gentle pressure to intense pain stimuli and are often used to combine physical stimulation, mental tension, and control. Explanation of clamps Clamps are among the most versatile and symbolically charged toys in BDSM. Not only do they

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