Candles/candle wax

Kaarsen/kaarsvet - Waxplay

DefinitionPlaying with candles and candle wax (also known as wax play) is a form of sensory play within BDSM in which warm drops of candle wax are applied to the skin of the sub. The play revolves around the interplay between heat, tension, pain, and surrender. Explanation of candles/candle wax The use of candles in BDSM has an almost ritualistic

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Bald

Geschoren - Kaal

DefinitionBald or shaved refers within BDSM to the complete or partial removal of body hair, usually from the pubic area, armpits, or the entire body. It can have a practical, aesthetic, or symbolic meaning within the dynamic between Dominant and sub. For a detailed explanation, see shaved. More information EncyclopediaLetter B

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Jaw clamp

Kaakklem - Jaw clamp

DefinitionA jaw clamp is a clamp or spreading device used to forcibly hold the mouth or jaw open or, conversely, to press it shut. It can be found as a medical instrument, but is also described in historical torture practices and sometimes mentioned in extreme forms of medical fetishism or control in BDSMscenarios. Explanation of jaw clamps Jaw clamps come

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Jute

Jute

DefinitionJute is a coarse plant fiber obtained from the stems of the jute plant (Corchorus capsularis or Corchorus olitorius). Within BDSM, jute is often used as a natural rope material for bondage, especially in traditional Japanese bondage (Shibari) techniques. Explanation Jute Jute is one of the oldest textile fibers in the world and is known for its rough texture, light

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Judas seat

Judaszetel - Judas seat

DefinitionThe Judas chair was a historical instrument of torture used in the Middle Ages and early modern times to extract confessions or punish convicts. The name refers to Judas Iscariot, the disciple who betrayed Jesus, and symbolized pain, betrayal, and humiliation. Explanation of the Judas chair The Judas chair consisted of a heavy wooden or metal chair, the seat, backrest,

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Jojoba oil

Jojobaolie

DefinitionJojoba oil is a natural vegetable oil extracted from the seeds of the jojoba plant (Simmondsia chinensis). Within BDSM, jojoba oil is often used as massage oil, lubricant, or care product for your bondage rope. Explanation of jojoba oil Jojoba oil is unique because it is not a true oil, but a liquid wax that closely resembles the natural sebum

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Dental play

Dental play

DefinitionDental play is a form of medical fetishism or medical play within BDSM in which dental procedures, instruments, or scenarios are reenacted or experienced erotically. It revolves around the combination of power, control, excitement, and sometimes pain associated with dental visits. Explanation of dental play Dental play focuses on creating excitement and sensations through the use of dental tools and

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Jenning gag

Geen foto

DefinitionA Jenning gag is a metal spreader gag that originally comes from the medical world and is used to keep the mouth open. Within BDSM, this tool is sometimes used to force the sub to keep their mouth open during oral play or as part of dental play, control, and humiliation play. Explanation of the Jenning gag The Jenning gag

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Japanese clamps

Amerikaanse tepelklemmen - American nipple clamps - Japanse klemmen

DefinitionJapanese clamps, also known as American nipple clamps, are metal nipple clamps with a hinged design that tightens as more tension is applied to the chain. They provide a more intense and sharper pain sensation than regular clamps. For a detailed explanation, see American nipple clamps. More information EncyclopediaLetter J

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Japanese bondage

Japanse bondage - Japanese bondage

DefinitionJapanese bondage, also known as Shibari or Kinbaku, is an artistic and often ritualistic form of rope bondage originating in Japan. It combines aesthetics, discipline, emotional intensity, and physical surrender. Unlike Western bondage, which usually focuses on fixation or restriction of movement, Japanese bondage revolves around the connection between Dominant and sub, and the emotional and energetic tension created by

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