Pegging
Definition
Pegging is a sexual act in which a woman penetrates a man with a strap-on dildo, usually anal training.
Explanation of Pegging
Pegging is a form of anal play in which the roles are reversed in a playful or erotic way. The woman wears a harness with a dildo (strap-on) and penetrates the man. This form of play is used in various contexts: from sensual and tender to humorous, playful, powerful, or part of a clear dominant/submissive dynamic. It is not necessarily a BDSM act, but it is common in Femdom, where the reversal of roles is an important psychological component.
Many men experience pegging as intense, both physically and emotionally. The prostate can generate strong sexual sensations through anal stimulation, leading to a deeper sense of surrender, relaxation, or arousal for some men. For female Dominants, it can be a way to take charge, experience control, or simply create an intimate and playful experience together.
The experience can range from subtle penetration and gentle movements to deeper and more rhythmic play, depending on boundaries, comfort, and the dynamic between partners. The most important thing is that both people feel comfortable with the division of roles and the play that goes with it.
Safety & points of attention
Pegging requires good preparation and communication.
Always use plenty of lubricant. The anal area does not produce its own moisture.
Start with a small dildo, especially if someone has no experience.
Take time to relax. Breathing, foreplay, and rest are essential.
Using a condom on the dildo is recommended, especially for hygiene and easy cleaning.
Build up slowly. Tightening, discomfort, or sharp pain are signs to stop or slow down.
Good hygiene. Clean toys before and after use.
Pay attention to the man’s position. Lying on your back with your knees up, doggy style, or on all fours; each position requires a different technique and caution.
Emotional safety. Pegging can raise mental barriers due to taboos or shame. Provide reassurance, respect, and openness.
For dominant women: be aware of your power. The strap-on provides strong leverage; control and attention remain essential to prevent injuries.
Related terms pegging
Anal plug
Anal play
Anal training
Dildo
Prostate
R/I
Sex
Strap-on
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