Nettles
Definition
The use of nettles in BDSM is a form of play in which the plant’s stinging hairs are applied to the skin to cause a burning, tingling, and sometimes prolonged painful sensation.
Explanation of nettles
Nettles have been known for centuries for their stinging effect. The plant’s small stinging hairs contain substances such as histamine and formic acid, which cause a burning, itching, and tingling sensation when they come into contact with the skin. Within BDSM, this natural property is used as a playful or sadistic stimulus.
The experience of nettles varies: light touch causes a tingling sensation that can last for minutes, while vigorous rubbing or beating with a bunch of nettles causes more intense pain. The effect can last for hours and sometimes cause small red bumps or blisters. For some subs, this is an exciting, unpredictable sensation that combines humiliation, pain, and arousal. For sadists or Dominants, the pleasure may lie in the natural, raw, and almost primitive way of inflicting pain.
Primal play & nature play
Nettles are often used as part of primal play or nature play, in which the elements of nature (plants, water, earth) are integrated into a BDSM experience. The contrast between the beauty of the green plant and the intense pain it can cause adds an extra psychological dimension.
In addition to direct contact with the skin, nettles can also be placed in clothing, taken into the mouth, or used on intimate areas for a more intense effect. However, this requires extreme caution.
Safety & points of attention
Do not use nettles on open wounds or irritated skin. This can cause infections and severe reactions.
When used around the genitals, eyes, or mouth, there is a high risk of severe irritation. Be extremely cautious with this.
Some people are hypersensitive to the substances in nettles and may react violently. Always test on a small area of skin first.
Afterwards, the skin can be cooled with cold water, a soothing gel, or aloe vera to reduce irritation.
The effect of stinging nettles can last longer than expected. Keep this in mind when planning your game.
Related terms stinging nettles
Nature play
Primal play
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