Good pain

Good pain

DefinitionGood pain refers within BDSM to pain that is experienced as pleasant, liberating, or exciting. It is pain that does not lead to trauma or rejection, but rather to a deepening of the experience, surrender, and connection between Dominant and submissive. Explanation of good pain The term good pain is used to distinguish between pain that is desirable and meaningful,

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Bad pain

Bad pain

DefinitionBad pain is pain that is experienced as negative, undesirable, or harmful during a BDSM experience. It contrasts with good pain, which can be pleasurable or liberating. Explanation Bad pain Within BDSM, a distinction is often made between “good pain” and “bad pain.” Good pain is pain that someone consciously seeks out and that is experienced as pleasant or intensely

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