Realistic Power Exchange (RPE)

Realistic Power Exchange (RPE)

DefinitionRealistic Power Exchange (RPE) is a power dynamic based on the ideals of Total Power Exchange (TPE), but adapted to realistic, achievable, and healthy boundaries in everyday life. It is a form of D/s in which complete surrender is sought within the limits of what is practical, mentally, and relationally responsible. Explanation of realistic power exchange TPE is a much-discussed

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Lifestyle

Lifestyle

DefinitionWithin BDSM, the term lifestyle refers to a way of life in which BDSM is not just a game or sexual preference, but an essential part of a person’s identity, values, and daily experience. A lifestyleDom(me) or lifestylesub experiences the D/s dynamic not only in the bedroom, but also in attitude, communication, and energy outside of play. Explanation of lifestyle

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D/s

D/s

DefinitionD/s stands for Dominance and submission (dominance and submission). It is the basic dynamic within many BDSM relationships, in which one person consciously takes the lead (the Dominant) and the other voluntarily relinquishes control (the submissive). Explanation of D/s The term D/s refers to the game and attitude to life in which power and submission are central. Whereas BDSM is

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CIR

24/7 - COO

Definition CIR is short for Complete Irrevocable Submission. It can be compared to the term 24/7. A 24/7 relationship within BDSM refers to a dynamic in which the Dominant–submissive (D/s) or Master/slave (M/s) relationships apply not only during scenes or agreed moments, but continuously – 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. This form of lifestyle BDSM is characterized

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