Slave / Slave girl
Definitio
A slave (male submissive) or slave girl (female submissive) is a person who, within a voluntary BDSM dynamic, submits completely to a Dominant. The submission is consensual, conscious, and based on trust, structure, and mutual agreements.
Explanation of slave/slave girl
The terms slave and slave girl are used within BDSM for submissives who experience a more intense and permanent form of surrender than a ‘normal’ sub. Whereas a sub usually focuses on specific sessions or moments, a slave/slave girl focuses on continuous service, discipline, and devotion. The dynamic often goes deeper, both psychologically and relationally.
A slave finds fulfillment in letting go of control and following the will, rules, and structure of the Dominant. This can manifest itself in:
• daily rituals
• tasks and assignments
• servitude (practical or erotic)
• posture training and discipline
• mental surrender
• asking permission for certain things
• structural BDSM or D/s dynamics
Not a game
For many slaves, the experience is not a game, but a role that is deeply woven into their identity. They experience peace when they are guided, clarity when there are rules, and satisfaction when they are allowed to serve their Dominant. Dominants, in turn, appreciate the loyalty, availability, and surrender of their slave.
Despite the terminology, this dynamic is never about abuse of power, but about a voluntary, mature exchange of energy. Healthy slavery within BDSM is based on voluntariness, communication, consent, safety, and respect. It is a form of loving control rather than exploitation.
Safety & points of attention
Because the term and dynamic are intense, slavery within BDSM requires extra care. Important points of attention:
Consent always takes precedence over role. A slave surrenders voluntarily – never out of obligation, pressure, or dependence.
A slave also has hard limits, limits that must be discussed and respected.
No matter how intense or total the surrender is, safety always comes first.
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Bottom
Brat
Cleaning slave
Emotional submissive
Kajira
Owned
Relsub
Service submissive
Slave auction
Slavery contract
Sub
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