Shaving
Definition
Shaving refers within BDSM to the complete or partial removal of body hair, usually from the pubic area, armpits, or the entire body. It can have a practical, aesthetic, or symbolic meaning within the dynamic between Dominant and sub.
Explanation of shaving
Shaving a sub can have different meanings depending on the context. For some, it is a ritual of cleansing and submission, in which the sub is literally and figuratively ‘stripped’ of something personal. For others, it is purely functional: smooth skin makes stimulation, bondage, or medical play (such as needle play) easier and more hygienic.
In Femdom play, shaving can also be a form of control or humiliation. A Mistress may order her sub to shave or shave him herself as a sign of ownership, purification, or preparation for a session. It then has a strong ritual character, with the act of shaving symbolizing surrender, purity, or transformation.
There are also specific fetishes surrounding the theme of ‘smooth’ or ‘hairless’. The feel of shaved skin is experienced by many as erotic, precisely because of its softness, vulnerable appearance, and increased sensitivity.
Safety & points of attention
Shaving seems harmless, but requires extra attention in BDSM circumstances:
Always use a new, clean razor blade to prevent cuts and infections.
Clean the skin beforehand with warm water and mild soap.
Apply shaving cream or oil to reduce friction.
After shaving: use a soothing cream or aloe vera to prevent irritation.
Never shave immediately before intense play involving sweat, oil, or friction; the skin is vulnerable at that time.
In BDSM, what is a sensual moment of care for one person can be a form of power transfer or humiliation for another. Therefore, always be alert to the sub’s experience.
Related terms shaving
Forced feminization
Medical play
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