Paddle
Definition
A paddle is a flat, usually wider percussion instrument used in BDSM for spanking, discipline, and impact play. It can be made of wood, leather, plastic, or rubber and delivers a deep, penetrating blow.
Explanation of paddle
The paddle is one of the better-known BDSM instruments and is often used for spanking, rhythmic impact, or punishment play. Unlike a whip or cane, a paddle delivers a broader, more dispersed blow. This creates a deep, warm impact that can be both painful and exciting, depending on the force, material, and technique used. The flat surface distributes the force over a larger area of the skin, making a paddle feel less cutting or sharp than, for example, a cane or reins.
Paddles come in all shapes and materials.
• Wooden paddles deliver firm, intense blows and have little flexibility.
• Leather paddles often feel slightly softer and can range from playful to heavy.
• Rubber or plastic paddles are often more intense because the material springs back.
There are also hollow or perforated paddles; these allow less air to escape and therefore deliver a firmer, sharper blow.
Within D/s dynamics, a paddle can be used for sensation play, for punishment, for warming up, or as a ritual part of discipline. Its broad impact makes the instrument suitable for buttocks, thighs, and sometimes shoulders, where there is enough muscle mass to absorb the blow.
Safety & points of attention
Although a paddle is relatively wide, it can still deliver considerable force. It is important to always strike areas with sufficient flesh: the buttocks and upper legs are the safest.
Avoid vulnerable areas such as the lower back (kidneys), hip bones, spine, joints, and face.
Watch for redness, swelling, or numbness: these can indicate too much impact.
Build up slowly, especially with wooden or rubber paddles. Test the instrument on yourself first to gauge the intensity.
Be mindful of the angle of impact: a paddle that strikes too horizontally or at an angle can more easily cause abrasions or damage the skin.
Communication remains essential. Also keep in mind that paddles, due to their flat shape, can cause bruising or deep heat that can be felt for hours or even days. Always use safewords and pay attention to aftercare afterwards.
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