Moxa play
Definition
In BDSM, Moxa play is a collective term for the application of controlled, superficial pain stimuli to the skin using heat – usually by means of burning incense, moxa (dried mugwort), or a glowing object held close to or on the skin. The practice is derived from the traditional Chinese therapy moxibustion, but is used within BDSM as a form of sensation or pain play.
Explanation of moxibustion
Moxibustion belongs to the category of fire or heat play and is sometimes used to make the skin extra sensitive or as a ritual experience of power and surrender. The dominant determines the distance, duration, and intensity of the heat, while the submissive feels the heat approaching without knowing exactly when or where the stimulus will come. This makes moxibustion both physically and mentally intense.
The smell of burning herbs, the sound of crackling fire, and the contrast between heat and tension enhance the sensory experience. For some players, moxing has a symbolic meaning: purifying or “opening” energy, marking trust, or transitioning from pain to relaxation.
Safety & points of attention
Moxibustion is risky and requires knowledge of fire and fire safety. Always work in a well-ventilated area, keep water or a fire blanket within reach, and only use materials intended for this purpose (such as moxa sticks).
The heat source should never be held too close to the skin – at least a few centimeters away – to prevent burns.
Constantly check the skin’s reaction: if it becomes red, blistered, or too hot, stop immediately. Avoid moxibustion on people with sensitive skin, wounds, scars, or circulation problems.
Aftercare is important: cool if necessary, use moisturizing ointment, and pay attention to the emotional effect of the session.
Related terms moxibustion
Medical play
Moxa
Temperature play
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