Mistress Moriah
Definition
Mistress Moriah is a leading Dutch Pro Domme, author, and educator in the world of loving and authentic BDSM. She is best known for her vision of safety, depth, and emotional connection within Femdom. Her work includes workshops, books, personal coaching, and educational projects that show BDSM as a balance between strength, vulnerability, responsibility, and love.
Explanation Mistress Moriah
Mistress Moriah is more than a Pro Domme. She is a bridge between experience, knowledge, and awareness. Based on her years of experience in the BDSM world, she has developed a unique approach that she calls loving BDSM: a form of play and dynamics in which power and surrender are always supported by respect, consent, emotional safety, and authenticity.
She has written several books, including “The Road to Loving BDSM,” “How to Become a Mistress,” “More BDSM,” “I Love Femdom,” “24 Hours,” “Jay,” “The Superlative of Love is BDSM,” and various textbooks for professional Dominants. In her work, she combines psychology, spirituality, physical knowledge, and human warmth. She focuses on both Dominants and submissives and teaches them what real power means: taking responsibility for the other person, for yourself, and for the game.
Workshops and training courses
In addition to her writing, Mistress Moriah organizes workshops, training courses, and first aid training specifically for (novice) Dominatrixes, subs, and professionals. Her courses are praised for their balance between practice, safety, and personal development. The emphasis is always on awareness, communication, safety, and aftercare – the foundations of healthy BDSM.
Through her platforms such as BDSMforyou.nl, BDSMWorkshops.nl, Femdom-Lifestyle.nl, and this BDSM encyclopedia, she spreads knowledge and inspiration to purify the image of BDSM from misunderstandings, superficiality, and commercial abuse. Her mission is to make the true essence of BDSM – love, trust, and transformation – visible again.
What she does
Mistress Moriah trains women who want to work professionally as Mistresses (among other things) through her platform ProDomme.nl, with lessons in safety, psychology, communication, and ethics.
She developed the first specialized first aid training for (Pro) Dom(me)s, focused on medical situations that can specifically occur within an SM space.
She writes in-depth books and blogs on topics such as mental safety, consent, tears, time, smell, power, and surrender – always with a warm and human tone.
She guides both Dominants and subs in discovering their true nature and deepening their experience. Her sessions are known for their respectful, safe, and transformative character.
Through the BDSM encyclopedia, she documents hundreds of terms, techniques, and insights with the aim of preserving knowledge and disseminating it safely.
She is actively committed to the visibility and dignity of the female Dominant and fights against the superficial perception of Femdom as a purely sexual or commercial phenomenon.
Vision
In her vision, BDSM is a form of love – an energetic dance between power and vulnerability. Pain is never an end in itself, but a means to liberation. Surrender is not weakness, but power. And dominance is not an abuse of power, but care, responsibility, and control. She sees BDSM as a mirror of the soul, in which people get to know themselves in their purest form. Or as she often says:
“Real BDSM is not about what you do, but about who you dare to be.”
Multiple concepts
In addition to her work as a writer and educator, Mistress Moriah is also the creator and founder of several concepts that have now become established within the BDSM world. She launched Sissy Celebration Day, an annual celebration that puts sissies worldwide in the spotlight; developed the Kinky Advent Calendar (the first appeared in 2024), and introduced both the RPE dynamic (Realistic Power Exchange) and the ZZZ experience, her own balanced vision of pain, rest, and emotional release within BDSM.
With these creations, she not only gives voice to what many feel, but also opens up new traditions and directions within an increasingly mature BDSM scene.
Related terms Mistress Moriah
BDSMforyou
Mistress
Kinky Adventcalender
Pro Domme
RPE
Sissy Celebration Day
ZZZ-beleving
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