Diaper lover
Definition
A diaper lover (DL) is someone who experiences sexual or emotional arousal from wearing diapers or seeing others do so. This preference can be part of age play, infantilism, or regression play, but it also occurs as a standalone fetish.
Explanation of diaper lover
The term diaper lover (abbreviated DL) refers to people who enjoy diapers, without this always having anything to do with childish roles or dependence. Some find the sensation of wearing them erotic – the soft material, the feeling of being confined, or the thrill of something “forbidden.” Others enjoy the smell, the sound, or the feeling of complete surrender that comes with it.
Within BDSM, this preference often falls under the heading of ageplay or regression play, in which the sub temporarily returns to a childlike role. This can range from playfulness and care to deep forms of comfort and dependence. However, not every diaper lover is interested in role play. There are also adults who simply enjoy wearing, wetting, or seeing diapers- similar to other sensory or textile fetishes.
Safety and comfort
Psychologically, the experience often revolves around safety, comfort, and excitement. Diapers can symbolize innocence, security, or letting go of control. For some, it is a way to reduce stress or to escape responsibilities for a while. Within a D/s context, it can also be a form of power reduction: the Dominant determines when the sub may urinate, change diapers, or expose themselves, which reinforces feelings of dependence.
It is important to emphasize that diaper play has nothing to do with pedophilia. It is a consensual form of play between adults, in which diapers symbolize regression, control, or comfort – not childish sexuality.
Safety & points to consider
Not everyone understands or accepts this fetish, so discretion and mutual respect are important.
Always use clean, skin-friendly products. Prolonged wearing of wet diapers can lead to irritation or fungal infections.
Be hygienic when changing or playing with urine. Wash your hands and use disposable gloves if necessary.
Make sure both partners fully understand what the game entails and where the boundaries lie.
Consider the mental impact. For some people, diaper play touches on deep emotions of shame, dependence, or comfort.
Related terms Diaper lover
AB
ABDL
Adult baby
Ageplay
Baby play
DL
Infantilism
Roleplay
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