De complete BDSM encyclopedie voor kennis, veiligheid en beleving
DefinitionA stag dynamic is a relational and sexual dynamic in which a man, known as the stag, consciously encourages or supports his partner, the vixen, in her sexual or romantic interactions with others. Unlike some other forms of partner-sharing, the emphasis is usually not on humiliation or submission, but on pride, trust, excitement, and sharing the experience together. Explanation of
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DefinitionStiletto heels are shoes with a very high, narrow, and often pointed heel. Within BDSM, Femdom, and fetish culture, stilettos are often associated with feminine power, elegance, dominance, self-confidence, and charisma. They are frequently worn during sessions, photo shoots, events, and role-playing. Explanation of stiletto heels The term stiletto refers to the shoe’s characteristic thin heel. Although high heels have
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DefinitionSTI is the abbreviation for Sexually Transmitted Infection. These are infections that are primarily transmitted through sexual contact, bodily fluids, or contact between mucous membranes. Some STDs cause obvious symptoms, while others can remain undetected for a long time. Understanding STI Within BDSM and sexuality in general, STIs are a key topic concerning safety, responsibility, and communication. Because BDSM often
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DefinitionA snake whip is a flexible single-tail whip without a rigid handle, designed for speed, control, and fluid movements. Unlike the signal whip, a snake whip does include a separate fall, an extra leather section to which the cracker is attached. In BDSM, the snake whip is used for impact play, precision work, rhythmic scenes, and building mental tension. Explanation
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DefinitionSounding is a medical and sexual practice in which a specially designed rod, known as a sound or dilator, is gently inserted into the urethra. Within BDSM, kink, and some fetish communities, sounding is practiced for the physical sensations, the sense of control, the mental experience, or a combination of these. Explanation of sounding The origins of sounding lie in
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DefinitionSlave training is a general term for guiding, shaping, and training a submissive or slave within a dominant/submissive dynamic. The training may focus on behavior, discipline, service, obedience, rituals, mental surrender, sexual dynamics, or practical skills within a BDSM relationship. Explanation of slave training Within BDSM, slave training usually does not mean that someone literally becomes a “slave” without a
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DefinitionScratching is a form of play in which fingernails are used to make light to more intense scratching motions across the skin, often combining pain, tingling, and sensory stimulation. Explanation of Scratching At first glance, scratching may seem like a small, innocent act, but within BDSM, it can have surprising depth. It revolves around touch, but in a way that
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DefinitionA harpoon hook is a metal fastener in the shape of a U- or D-bracket with a removable pin, which is used in BDSM as an attachment point for ropes, chains, or other bondage elements. Explanation of a shackle The shackle was originally a maritime and industrial connecting piece, also known as a shackle. It consists of a sturdy metal
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DefinitionSexually transmitted diseases are infections that are mainly transmitted through sexual contact. They are also referred to as STDs. Explanation of sexually transmitted diseases Sexually transmitted diseases are caused by bacteria, viruses, or parasites that can be transmitted from one person to another during sexual contact. This can happen through vaginal, anal, or oral contact, but also through direct contact
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DefinitionA suture scissors – or suture cutter – is a small, precision medical instrument specially designed to remove sutures safely and in a controlled manner without damaging surrounding tissue. Explanation suture scissors The thread scissors, also known as suture scissors in a medical context, are among the finer surgical instruments. Unlike standard scissors, this instrument has been specifically designed for
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