De complete BDSM encyclopedie voor kennis, veiligheid en beleving
DefinitionRope within BDSM is specially selected and processed cord material used for bondage, decorative bindings, or full suspension. The most commonly used materials are jute, hempex, hemp, and cotton. Each material has its own structure, strength, smell, flexibility, and safety requirements. Explanation of rope Rope is a world unto itself within BDSM and shibari. The material you choose determines not
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DefinitionA ruler is a flat, hard ruler (usually made of wood or plastic) that is used in BDSM as a striking instrument for sharp, direct, and linear pain stimuli. It functions as a variant within impact play, comparable to light canes or flat paddles. Explanation of ruler The ruler is often used because of its accessibility and the specific sound
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DefinitionA ruined orgasm is an orgasm in which the climax is initiated, but the actual release is prevented by removing or changing the stimulation at the last moment. The result is an incomplete, often frustrating, and intensely palpable after-sensation. Explanation of ruined orgasm A ruined orgasm deliberately plays with the moment when a sub is just about to cross the
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DefinitionA Rose Ceremony is a symbolic BDSMritual in which a red rose, a white rose, a necklace, and the blood of both Dominant and sub come together as a sign of devotion, trust, loyalty, and equal connection within a D/s relationship. It is sometimes referred to as a “BDSM marriage.” Explanation of the rose ceremony The rose ceremony is a
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DefinitionA rope bunny is a submissive who enjoys being tied up during bondage or Shibari. The term refers to someone who is the recipient of the rope and coincides with the role of a bunny. For a detailed explanation, see Bunny. More information EncyclopediaLetter R
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DefinitionRole play is a form of BDSM in which one or both partners assume a different role, identity, or situation to enhance excitement, fantasy, or a certain dynamic. The game is deliberately created and based entirely on consent and agreements. Explanation of role play Role play is one of the most versatile forms of BDSM. It gives partners the space
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DefinitionA ring gag is a gag with an open, round metal or plastic ring that forces the mouth open. It is used to restrict speech, increase surrender, or provide access to the mouth during BDSM play. Explanation of ring gag Whereas a classic ball gag closes the mouth, a ring gag does exactly the opposite: it keeps the mouth wide
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DefinitionRimming is a sexual act in which a partner’s anus is stimulated with the mouth and tongue. This form of oral-anal sex is also known as anilingus or ass licking. Within BDSM, it can be both an intimate form of surrender and an element of humiliation play, depending on the intention and dynamics between Dominant and sub. Explanation of rimming
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DefinitionA rigger is the person who ties ropes during bondage or Shibari. The rigger is responsible for the technique, safety, communication, and experience of the person being tied. Explanation of rigger In bondage – and certainly in shibari – the rigger plays an important, often almost ceremonial role. It is the rigger who determines how the rope moves across the
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DefinitionA relsub is a sub who exhibits excessively dramatic, explosive, demanding, or emotionally disruptive behavior within a D/s dynamic. The behavior often revolves around attention, chaos, or validation and can damage a dynamic or make it unsafe. Explanation of relsub The term relsub is mainly used to describe a sub who, instead of submission, introduces relational behavior, emotional manipulation, or
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