De complete BDSM encyclopedie voor kennis, veiligheid en beleving
DefinitionA parachute is a BDSM toy that is attached to a man’s scrotum, with weights that can be hung from the bottom to create a pulling and weighting effect on the testicles. Explanation of the parachute The parachute is a relatively small but highly effective tool in BDSM, particularly in play styles focused on control, pain stimulation, and physical sensitivity.
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DefinitionA painslut is a submissive who has a strong preference for or desire to experience pain stimuli within BDSM, and finds this arousing, liberating, or deeply fulfilling – always within the bounds of consent. Explanation painslut Within BDSM, there are many different ways in which people experience pleasure, excitement, and surrender. For some, this lies in control; for others, in
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DefinitionPower refers to the agreed-upon influence or control that one person (the Dominant) has over another (the submissive), based on mutual consent, trust, and clear agreements. Explanation of Power Power is one of the core concepts within BDSM, but it is often misunderstood when viewed out of context. In the outside world, power is frequently associated with control without consent
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DefinitionPheromones are chemical signaling substances secreted by the body that can unconsciously influence the behavior, attractiveness, or mood of other people. Explanation of pheromones Pheromones operate on a level where words no longer play a role. They are odorless or barely perceptible substances that are released through the skin, sweat, and sebum and are picked up by others through the
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DefinitionPunishment within BDSM is a consciously agreed form of discipline in which a Dominant takes corrective action against a submissive, with the aim of providing structure, awareness, or confirmation of the power dynamic, not to cause arbitrary harm. Explanation of punishment Punishment within BDSM differs significantly from punishment in everyday life. It is not about anger, revenge, or impulsive retaliation,
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DefinitionA play partner is someone with whom you consensually share BDSM play, without necessarily having a romantic relationship, 24/7 dynamics, or long-term commitment. It is a partner specifically for play, experience, and mutual trust. Explanation of play partner A play partner is someone with whom you consciously and voluntarily agree to engage in BDSM play. This can range from gentle
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DefinitionA play party is a BDSMgathering where people come together to play, experiment, meet each other, and experience BDSM sessions in a safe environment. It is a private or semi-open event with clear rules, supervision, and space for different forms of kink play. Explanation of a play party A play party is a place where kinksters can play with partners
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DefinitionPubic hair is the body hair that grows around the genitals. Within BDSM, its presence, absence, or styling can be part of eroticism, preferences, fetishes, or D/s agreements. Explanation of pubic hair Pubic hair plays a greater role in sexual experience than many people think. For some, natural hair growth is part of sensuality, scent, and maturity; for others, smoothness
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DefinitionPVC is a shiny, synthetic material (polyvinyl chloride) that is widely used in fetish and BDSMclothing because of its tight fit, reflective surface, and the sensory experience it creates. Explanation of PVC PVC clothing is often seen as a more accessible, lighter alternative to latex. It has a similar shine and appearance, but is less tight, easier to put on,
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DefinitionPussy torture is a form of BDSM pain play in which the female genitals – vulva, labia, clitoris, inner thighs – are deliberately and controlledly exposed to intense stimuli or pain. It revolves around tension, surrender, build-up, and playing with boundaries. Explanation of pussy torture Pussy torture is a broad concept that ranges from sharp sensations to deep, penetrating pressure.
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