Piece of furniture

Human furniture

DefinitionIn BDSM, a piece of furniture – or human furniture – is a person who is temporarily used as a living object – for example, as a table, stool, footstool, or stand – to explore power, objectification, and surrender. The submissive fulfills the role of a functional object within a ritual or session, often as an expression of absolute obedience

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Powerlessness

Machteloosheid

DefinitionPowerlessness is the feeling or state in which someone no longer feels in control of what is happening. Within BDSM, it refers to the conscious surrender of control by the sub to the Dominant, creating a feeling of total dependence, surrender, and sometimes emotional liberation. Explanation of powerlessness Powerlessness can be induced both physically and mentally within BDSM. Physical powerlessness

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Pillory

Gerechtspaal - Pillory

DefinitionA pillory is a wooden or stone post that in earlier times served as a place of punishment, torture, or execution. Within BDSM, the term is sometimes used symbolically or aesthetically to refer to a post or structure to which a sub can be tied during a punishment or humiliation game. Explanation of the pillory Historically, the pillory was often

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Pleasure marbles

Ben-Wa-ballem - Geisha love balls - Genotsknikkers

DefinitionPleasure balls – also known as Geisha love balls, love balls or Ben-Wa balls – are small, round balls that are inserted into the vagina for erotic stimulation or to train the pelvic floor muscles. In BDSM and sensual play, they are used to increase body awareness, stimulate subtle sensations, or build control and tension under the direction of the

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