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DefinitionNursing refers within BDSM to a form of caring or nurturing play, in which one of the partners takes on the role of caregiver, nurse, or nurturing figure. The term comes from the English word “to nurse” – to care for, comfort, or feed – and can range from gentle, caring attention to symbolic or actual breastfeeding (adult nursing). Explanation
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DefinitionJohn Norman is the pseudonym of American author John Frederick Lange Jr. (born 1931), known for the Gor book series. His work combines science fiction with themes of domination and submission, and has influenced the way some people view BDSM, especially slavery dynamics, worldwide. Explanation Norman John Norman’s first novel, Tarnsman of Gor (1966), is set on the fictional planet
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DefinitionNo Nuts November is an annual challenge in November, in which participants abstain from masturbation and/or ejaculation. The concept originated in internet culture and is approached both playfully and seriously, including within the BDSM world – especially in the context of chastity play or no-cumming rules. Explanation No Nuts November The term No Nuts November originated as an internet meme
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DefinitionA no-go is a clear personal prohibition or hard limit within BDSM. It refers to actions, subjects, or forms of experience that are non-negotiable or unacceptable to someone. A no-go is therefore something that does not happen, regardless of the situation, role, or mood. Explanation of no go In BDSM, communication about boundaries is essential. Players often distinguish between three
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DefinitionNipple clamps (also known as nipple clamps) are small clamps that are placed on the nipples to stimulate pain, pressure, or pulling sensations. They are used in BDSM as a form of sensory play or pain play, and can range from mildly stimulating to intensely painful, depending on the model and settings. Explanation of nipple clamps Nipple clamps come in
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DefinitionA newbie is a term used within the BDSM world to refer to someone who is new to the BDSM experience. The word comes from the English word “new” and literally means “newcomer.” A newbie can be dominant, submissive, or switch and is in the phase of discovery, learning, and orientation. Explanation of newbie The term newbie is often used
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DefinitionA neon wand is an electrical stimulation device used in BDSM for sensual or painful stimulation of the skin. It works with high-frequency, low-current electrical discharges that are conducted over the body via a glass electrode, creating a stimulating, tingling, or slightly stinging sensation. Explanation of neon wand The neon wand, also known as a violet wand, gets its name
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DefinitionNeedle play is a form of medical fetish play within BDSM in which sterile injection needles are inserted superficially into the skin to create pain, tension, or aesthetic patterns. It revolves around precision, control, and the interplay between physical sensation and mental surrender. Explanation Needle play Needle play is one of the more advanced forms of medical play and combines
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DefinitionWithin BDSM, nails refer both to a physical characteristic and to an instrument that can be used to administer stimuli. They are used to caress, scratch, mark, or inflict pain on the skin, ranging from gentle and seductive to sharp and sadistic. Explanation of nails Nails play a subtle but powerful role in many BDSM experiences. The touch of nails
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DefinitionThe use of nettles in BDSM is a form of play in which the plant’s stinging hairs are applied to the skin to cause a burning, tingling, and sometimes prolonged painful sensation. Explanation of nettles Nettles have been known for centuries for their stinging effect. The plant’s small stinging hairs contain substances such as histamine and formic acid, which cause
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