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DefinitionA Gorean Master is, within the Gorean lifestyle, the man who fulfills the role of natural ruler, based on the hierarchical structure from John Norman’s Gor books. He embodies strength, discipline, responsibility, and honor, and has complete control over his kajira (female slave). His dominance is seen as an expression of natural order, in which obedience and protection are balanced
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DefinitionGor is the name of a fictional planet from the book series by author John Norman, on which there is a society with strict hierarchies between men and women. Within the BDSMculture, Gor refers to the Gorean lifestyle, in which domination, obedience, honor, and natural role distribution are central. The term is used to describe both the world from the
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DefinitionGor refers to the fictional planet that is central to the Gor book series by author John Norman. The term Gorean lifestyle refers to the lifestyle, philosophy, or division of roles that emerged from these books. Within the BDSM world, Gorean lifestyle refers to a form of strictly hierarchical dominance and submission, inspired by the relationships between Masters and slaves
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DefinitionA golden shower is a sexual or fetishistic act in which one person deliberately urinates on another, usually as part of a BDSM or humiliation game. The experience is not primarily about urine itself, but about power, surrender, shame, intimacy, or trust between dominant and submissive. Explanation of golden shower The term golden shower refers to the golden color of
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DefinitionGood pain refers within BDSM to pain that is experienced as pleasant, liberating, or exciting. It is pain that does not lead to trauma or rejection, but rather to a deepening of the experience, surrender, and connection between Dominant and submissive. Explanation of good pain The term good pain is used to distinguish between pain that is desirable and meaningful,
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DefinitionA bondage glove, also known as an armbinder, is a tight-fitting leather or latex arm sack in which both arms of the submissive are secured, usually behind the back. It is a form of restrictive bondage intended to completely restrict freedom of movement and enhance feelings of surrender, powerlessness, and submission. Explanation of gloves Gloves are a classic and visually
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DefinitionGenital piercings are jewelry worn through or around the genitals. In BDSM, they can serve an aesthetic, erotic, or functional purpose, for example for stimulation, control, or as an attachment point for bondage or pain play. Explanation of genital piercings Genital piercings come in many shapes and styles, depending on gender and the desired experience. They are performed by specialized
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DefinitionWithin BDSM and fetishism, gender-bending refers to consciously playing with or reversing traditional gender roles, clothing styles, and behaviors. It revolves around exploring masculine and feminine energy, regardless of biological sex or social expectations. Explanation of gender bending In the BDSM world, gender bending comes in all shapes and sizes, from subtle role-playing variations to pronounced transformations. For example, a
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DefinitionGeisha love balls (also known as Ben-Wa balls , love balls or pleasure marbles) are small, round balls that are inserted into the vagina and used for stimulation or pelvic floor training. In BDSM and erotic play, they are often used to enhance body awareness, tension, or the Dominant‘s control over the sub’s body. For a detailed explanation, see Ben-Wa
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DefinitionA gas mask is a mask that covers the entire face and was originally intended to protect against toxic substances, but within BDSM it is used as part of fetishism, power play, and sensory control. Explanation of gas mask The gas mask is a popular fetish object within BDSM, especially among enthusiasts of latex play, rubber fetish, and breath control.
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