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DefinitionA fiddle is a rigid bondage device that binds the neck and both wrists together in a fixed position, severely restricting the wearer’s freedom of movement and making them dependent on the attendant. Explanation of the fiddle The fiddle, also known as a bondage fiddle, rigid fiddle, or historically as a shrew’s fiddle, is a rigid construction usually made of
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DefinitionA fetish dispenser is an informal term within BDSM and kink for a person who is reduced by another to a “supplier” of specific fetish desires, without recognition of their own personality, boundaries, or reciprocity within the dynamic. Explanation of fetish dispenser The term fetish dispenser is not an official psychological or medical term. It is an informal, sometimes cynically
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DefinitionFantasy is an inner representation or imagination of situations, feelings, or actions that do not necessarily take place in reality, but which can be experienced emotionally, erotically, or mentally. Explanation of fantasy Fantasy is the playground of the mind. It is the place where desires can unfold safely without having to be acted upon immediately. Fantasy plays a fundamental role
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DefinitionThe fall is the single, non-braided piece of leather or synthetic material located between the thong (the braided body of the whip) and the cracker (the thin end that causes the crack). Explanation of the fall First of all, the fall acts as a wear buffer. When used correctly, this segment is subjected to the greatest mechanical stress: air resistance,
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DefinitionFace slapping is a form of impact play within BDSM involving hand-controlled blows to the face, within a pre-agreed and consensual dynamic. It is an act that can have both physical sensation and psychological significance and is therefore considered a form of high-risk play. Explanation of face slapping Face slapping differs from other forms of hitting, such as spanking, in
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DefinitionAnxiety within BDSM refers to the tension, anticipation, physical alertness, or mental restraint that can arise when a submissive is confronted with uncertainty, pain stimuli, power transfer, or intense experiences. Anxiety is not a goal in itself, but when experienced voluntarily and safely, it can become part of excitement, deepening, and surrender. Explanation of fear Fear plays a special role
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DefinitionFire play is a BDSM practice in which controlled flames or heat from combustible substances are used on the skin to induce intense sensations, excitement, and mental surrender. It is a form of sensation play that requires a high level of expertise and extreme caution. Explanation of fire play Fire play is one of the more ceremonial and ritualistic forms
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DefinitionA footspankin or bastinado is a form of physical punishment in which the soles of the submissive’s feet are struck with a cane, stick, straw, whip, or other striking instrument. The word originally comes from Spanish, but is used worldwide to refer to this specific form of impact play. For a detailed explanation, see bastinado. More information EncyclopediaLetter F
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DefinitionA foot fetish is a sexual preference in which a person becomes aroused by feet, high heels, or related activities. Within BDSM, foot fetishism often takes the form of foot worship, control, humiliation play, or servitude. Explanation of foot fetish Foot fetishism is one of the most common fetishes in the world. The attraction can lie in the shape, smell,
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DefinitionFish hooks in BDSM are barbless fish hooks, usually made of surgical steel, which are used for controlled skin play, decorative bondage positions, or intense sensations. They are attached only superficially to the skin and require strict hygiene and experience. Explanation of fish hooks The use of fish hooks in BDSM is one of the more extreme forms of skin
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