Corporal punishment

Lijfstraf

DefinitionCorporal punishment or castigation is a form of physical punishment that inflicts pain or discomfort on the body. Within BDSM, it refers to the consensual use of physical punishment such as hitting, spanking, whipping, or other forms of impact, with the aim of providing sensation, discipline, emotional release, or reinforcement of the D/s dynamic. Explanation of corporal punishment Although the

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Corset

Korset - Corset

DefinitionA corset is a tight-fitting garment that encases the upper body and cinches the waist, giving the body a streamlined, dominant or sensual shape. In BDSM, the corset is often used as a fetish object, a tool for posture correction, or a symbol of power, elegance, and control. Explanation of the corset The corset has a long history in which

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Cage

Kooi

DefinitionIn BDSM, a cage is a physical device in which a sub is temporarily confined. This can range from a small metal or wooden cage to a specially designed body cage, bench or chastity cage. The cage symbolizes restriction, control, and surrender, and can be used both literally and symbolically in D/s dynamics. Explanation of the cage The cage is

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Clothespins

Knijpers

DefinitionClothespins are simple, often household items (such as clothes pegs) that are used in BDSM to administer pain stimuli by temporarily applying pressure to the skin. They are mainly used on sensitive areas such as nipples, labia, inner thighs, or scrotum, making them an accessible form of pain play or sensory play. Explanation of clothespins Clothespins are a classic example

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Clamps

Klemmen

DefinitionClamps are tools used in BDSM to temporarily squeeze parts of the body, such as nipples, labia, penis, or scrotum. They range from gentle pressure to intense pain stimuli and are often used to combine physical stimulation, mental tension, and control. Explanation of clamps Clamps are among the most versatile and symbolically charged toys in BDSM. Not only do they

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Coprolagnie

Coprolagnie - Konteten

DefinitionCoprolagnia (from the Greek kopros = excrement and lagneia = lust) refers to the sexual desire or arousal that arises from seeing, smelling, or using feces. Colloquially, this is also referred to as scat play. It is a form of paraphilia and, within the BDSM world, it is one of the most extreme and rare fetishes. Explanation of Coprolagnie Coprolagnie

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Caviar

Kaviaar

DefinitionWithin BDSM, caviar (also known as scat) does not refer to the luxury fish product, but to the use of feces in a sexual or fetishistic context. The term originates from French and English slang, where “caviar play” or “scat play” is used to refer to playing with feces. It falls under the category of extreme fetishes and is one

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Catheter

Katheter - Catheter

DefinitionA catheter is a thin, flexible tube that is inserted into the bladder via the urethra to drain urine. In the medical world, this is a standard tool used during surgery or when someone is unable to urinate on their own. In BDSM, the catheter is sometimes used as part of medical play or urethral play, which involves a combination

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Carabiner

Karabijnhaak

DefinitionA carabiner is a metal hook with a spring clip or screw closure that is used to quickly and securely attach parts to each other. Within BDSM, the carabiner is widely used in bondage, suspension, and restraint to securely attach ropes, chains, or cuffs to rings or other attachment points. Explanation of carabiner The carabiner originated in mountaineering and climbing,

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Candles/candle wax

Kaarsen/kaarsvet - Waxplay

DefinitionPlaying with candles and candle wax (also known as wax play) is a form of sensory play within BDSM in which warm drops of candle wax are applied to the skin of the sub. The play revolves around the interplay between heat, tension, pain, and surrender. Explanation of candles/candle wax The use of candles in BDSM has an almost ritualistic

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