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DefinitionA bridle, also known as a witch’s mask, is a historical instrument of punishment that was used to prevent people from speaking. Originally, it was used as punishment for so-called slanderers, gossips, or people who were considered troublesome, disobedient, or seditious. In modern BDSM contexts, the bridle has become a symbolic and ritual object, disconnected from its original punitive function.
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DefinitionBoytoy or Toyboy is a term used in BDSM and Femdom to describe a male submissive who, with consent, positions himself as a ‘toy’, ‘sexual plaything’ or possession of a dominant woman. The term does not refer to objectification without mutual consent, but to an agreed role within a power dynamic in which surrender, service and devotion are central. Explanation
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DefinitionBlood sports is a term within BDSM that is used for consensual forms of play in which a small amount of blood may be released deliberately. It falls under what is often called edge play: BDSM practices that involve an increased risk and therefore require exceptional knowledge, experience, consent, and safety awareness. Explanation of blood sports Blood sports are not
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DefinitionBlanket consent is a form of consent within BDSM whereby someone gives prior consent for a broader dynamic or power relationship, rather than for each individual act. The consent covers the entirety of the D/s relationship or experience, not each individual detail. Explanation of blanket consent Blanket consent is often seen as an advanced form of consent and occurs mainly
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DefinitionBitch is a versatile and context-dependent term that has both general linguistic usage and specific meanings within BDSM and kink. Depending on tone, setting, and intention, the word can be offensive, playful, erotic, empowering, or functional. Explanation of bitch In general language use, bitch is often used as a swear word, usually directed at women, with the intention of portraying
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DefinitionBengay is an American sports ointment used for temporary relief of muscle and joint pain. The ointment has a strong warming and cooling effect and is sometimes used in BDSM contexts as a sensation enhancer on intact skin. Explanation of Bengay Bengay was originally developed for athletes and people with muscle or joint problems. Its effect is based on ingredients
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DefinitionBelting is a BDSM practice in which a belt is used to strike the body, usually the buttocks, thighs, or sometimes the back. The belt functions as an impact toy and is used within consensual power and pain play. Explanation of belting Belting falls under the category of impact play. Unlike specialized BDSM toys, a belt is an everyday object,
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DefinitionBareback or barebacking refers to sexual contact in which a condom is deliberately not used. Within BDSM and related sexual contexts, this is almost always an explicit, pre-discussed choice, not careless or unconscious behavior. Explanation of bareback – barebacking The term bareback originates from equestrian sports and literally means “without a saddle.” In a sexual context, it refers to skin-to-skin
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DefinitionBall play is an informal BDSM term that refers to types of play that focus on the testicles. This can range from light, playful stimulation to more intense forms of CBT (cock and ball torture), depending on context, agreements, and experience. Explanation of ball play The term ball play is mainly used as a collective term and is deliberately vague.
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DefinitionA bullet vibrator is a small, compact vibrating toy used for targeted stimulation of sensitive areas such as the clitoris, nipples, penis, perineum, or other erogenous zones. Within BDSM, the bullet vibrator is often used for tease & denial, control, sensation play, and orgasm control. Explanation bullet vibrator The bullet vibrator owes its name to its small, bullet-shaped appearance. Its
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