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DefinitionBald or shaved refers within BDSM to the complete or partial removal of body hair, usually from the pubic area, armpits, or the entire body. It can have a practical, aesthetic, or symbolic meaning within the dynamic between Dominant and sub. For a detailed explanation, see shaved. More information EncyclopediaLetter B
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DefinitionBoundaries are the physical, emotional, and mental limits that determine what someone will or will not accept within BDSM. They form the foundation of safe and consensual play, protecting both Dominant and submissive from harm, overload, or emotional transgression. Explanation of boundaries Within BDSM, boundaries are not a restriction, but rather a prerequisite for freedom. They provide direction, clarity, and
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DefinitionA bull is the male sexual partner of a cuckoldress or dominant woman in a cuckold– or Femdom – dynamic. He has sexual relations with the woman, often in the presence of her submissive partner (cuck), and embodies strength, virility, and dominance in that role. Explanation of bull Within cuckold or Femdom dynamics, the bull represents the archetype of the
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DefinitionBall kicks are a form of CBT (Cock and Ball Torture) in which the testicles are deliberately kicked or struck. It can vary from light taps to hard kicks, depending on the experience, habituation, and agreements between Dominant and submissive. Explanation of ball kicks Ball kicks are one of the more extreme forms of pain play within BDSM. The testicles
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DefinitionBody modification is the deliberate and permanent or temporary alteration of the body for aesthetic, symbolic, or sexual reasons. Within BDSM, this can range from piercings and tattoos to scar art and branding. Explanation Body modification Body modification is a broad term that refers to all ways in which people consciously alter their bodies. Some forms are widespread and socially
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DefinitionA butt plug (also known as an anal plug) is a toy that is specially designed to be inserted anally and remain there for a shorter or longer period of time. The plug can be used for sexual stimulation, training of the sphincter muscle, preparation for anal sex, or as part of a BDSM dynamic such as control, humiliation, ownership,
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DefinitionIn BDSM, a bunny or rope bunny is the term used to describe the recipient of rope bondage. It refers to the sub who allows themselves to be tied up and undergoes the physical and psychological experience of being bound. Explanation of bunny The term rope bunny is widely used in the shibari and bondage community. It describes the person
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DefinitionA bullwhip is a long, tapered whip that originated in cattle farming and was used to drive cattle with a crack. In BDSM, the bullwhip is used as a very intense and technical striking instrument. Explanation of the bullwhip The bullwhip is one of the most iconic whips in the world. It consists of a sturdy handle and a long,
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Definition A bullepees is the name used in the Netherlands and Flanders for a percussion instrument that was originally made from the dried penis tendon of a bull. Nowadays, they are often made from hard leather or plastic. In BDSM, the bullepees is used as a strict and painful whip-like attribute. The bullepees, originally a bull’s penis, later became the
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DefinitionBukkake is a sexual practice in which multiple men ejaculate onto one person, usually on the face or body. Within BDSM or fetish contexts, this is often linked to themes such as humiliation, surrender, or group dynamics. Explanation of Bukkake The word bukkake originally comes from Japanese and literally means “to pour” or “to drench.” The practice became known through
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