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DefinitionAn anal hook is a metal BDSM toy that is partially inserted into the anus and has a round or curved hook shape on the outside with an attachment point for rope or chain. The hook is used in bondage, role play, or visual domination, where the feeling of control, tension, and surrender is central. Explanation of anal hook The
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DefinitionAnkle cuffs are bondage devices that are fastened around the ankles to restrict movement or enable restraint. They are used in BDSM to enhance power, submission, and physical control. Explanation ankle restraints Ankle cuffs are similar to handcuffs, but specifically designed for the ankles. The cuffs restrict walking, kneeling, or spreading the legs and can evoke a feeling of vulnerability,
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DefinitionAdrenaline is a stress hormone produced by the body in exciting or intense situations. Adrenaline plays a major role in BDSM: it intensifies feelings of excitement, alertness, euphoria, and intensity during pain, fear, or surrender. Explanation of adrenaline Adrenaline – also known as the fight-or-flight hormone – is one of the most important substances produced by the body in response
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DefinitionAnimal play is a form of role play within BDSM in which one or more participants assume the role of an animal. This can be playful, erotic, or symbolic, and varies from light fantasy to profound experience. Explanation of animal play Animal play revolves around temporarily assuming an animal identity. This can be playful and lighthearted, such as a puppy
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DefinitionAftercare in BDSM refers to the care and attention that Dominant and submissive give each other after a session. The goal is to restore both physical and emotional balance, ensure safety, and conclude the experience in a healthy manner. Explanation of aftercare Aftercare is an essential part of the BDSM experience. During a session, boundaries are explored, emotions are released,
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DefinitionAn Apadravya is an intimate piercing jewelry in which a straight barbell runs vertically through the glans of the penis, from the bottom to the top. It is one of the most well-known and intense forms of genital piercing. Explanation of Apadravya The name Apadravya originates from ancient Indian texts such as the Kama Sutra, in which this type of
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DefinitionAutoeroticism refers to sexual arousal or satisfaction that one induces in oneself, without the direct involvement of another person. Within BDSM and kink, it often involves fantasy, self-stimulation, toys, self-bondage, or even dangerous techniques such as breath reduction. Autoeroticism is an intimate, personal form of play that requires a balance between surrender and self-control. Explanation of autoeroticism Autoeroticism is more
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Definition Anal training is the process of gradually getting used to anal stimulation, often with the help of toys or exercises, to relax the body, stretch the muscles, and enable pleasurable or comfortable anal play. Explanation of Anal Training Anal training plays an important role in BDSM and sexual play for anyone who wants to explore anal experiences, whether this
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DefinitionSelf-bondage is a form of BDSM in which a person ties themselves up or locks themselves in without the direct help or presence of another person. This may involve the use of handcuffs, ankle cuffs, ropes, chains, clothing restrictions, or other forms of immobilization. Self-bondage is usually performed as a personal fantasy, a solo experience, or as a ritual of
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DefinitionA St. Andrew’s cross is an X-shaped cross used in BDSM as bondage furniture. The sub is tied standing or slightly reclining with their arms and legs spread, usually at the four ends of the cross. The St. Andrew’s cross is mainly used for bondage, spanking, flogging, surrender, and various forms of sensation play. It is named after Saint Andrew,
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