Bull
Definition
A bull is the male sexual partner of a cuckoldress or dominant woman in a cuckold– or Femdom – dynamic. He has sexual relations with the woman, often in the presence of her submissive partner (cuck), and embodies strength, virility, and dominance in that role.
Explanation of bull
Within cuckold or Femdom dynamics, the bull represents the archetype of the strong, confident man. The term comes from the animal world, where the bull symbolizes male potency and strength. In the BDSM context, bull refers to the man who has sex with another man’s wife – the cuckoldress – while her submissive partner (the cuckold) watches, participates, or is excluded.
The role of the bull is multifaceted. In some relationships, he is purely a sexual guest player: a man who is invited to participate in the game without any emotional attachment. In other dynamics, the bull has a permanent or even hierarchically higher role within the relationship. Sometimes the bull himself is seen as Dominant, but there are also situations in which he submits to the woman’s leadership and fully acknowledges the power of the cuckoldress.
Sexual freedom
The bull’s experience therefore varies greatly. For some, it is a fetishistic role play, for others a real expression of sexual freedom. It is essential that the bull understands the sensitivity of the situation: he is part of a power game that is not about conquest, but about the experience of control, surrender, and mutual tension.
A respectful bull is communicative, reliable, and understands that his role is a means to deepen the experience of the cuckoldress and her submissive. The power of the role lies not only in physical performance, but in being consciously present, respecting boundaries, and ensuring safety.
Safety & points of attention
Always use safe sex practices (condoms, STI testing, hygiene).
Discuss expectations, boundaries, and agreements between all parties in advance.
Be aware of the power dynamics: the cuckoldress determines what happens.
Show respect to both the woman and the submissive partner; the tension is based on trust, not on humiliation outside of consent.
Aftercare is important, especially if there is emotional intensity or jealousy.
Related terms bull
Cuck
Cuckolding
Cuckoldress
Hotwife
Femdom
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