Blanket consent
Definition
Blanket consent is a form of consent within BDSM whereby someone gives prior consent for a broader dynamic or power relationship, rather than for each individual act. The consent covers the entirety of the D/s relationship or experience, not each individual detail.
Explanation of blanket consent
Blanket consent is often seen as an advanced form of consent and occurs mainly in long-term BDSM relationships, D/s dynamics, and 24/7 arrangements. Instead of repeatedly asking for explicit consent for each action, the submissive gives blanket consent to the Dominant to take the lead, make decisions, and shape the game within agreed boundaries.
This emphatically does not mean that anything goes. Blanket consent always exists within clear boundaries. These boundaries are discussed in detail in advance during the preliminary discussion and remain a topic of conversation throughout the relationship. The trust required for blanket consent grows slowly and is built up through consistent behavior, care, and respect.
More responsibility
An important misunderstanding is that blanket consent amounts to “always yes” or “no more boundaries.” In reality, this form of consent requires more awareness, more communication, and more responsibility, especially on the part of the Dominant. The power that is given is great, and with it comes the duty to exercise that power carefully.
Within blanket consent, the possibility of withdrawing consent always remains. A sub retains the right to say stop, revise boundaries, or adjust agreements. Blanket consent is therefore not a legal contract, but a living trust that must be constantly nurtured and monitored.
Safety and points of attention
Blanket consent is only appropriate when there is a solid basis of trust. Without emotional safety, clear communication, and mutual respect, this form of consent is inappropriate and potentially harmful.
It requires mature self-knowledge on the part of both parties and a clear picture of each other’s mental and emotional capacity.
Regular evaluations are essential. What still works? What doesn’t (anymore)? What has changed?
Blanket consent can evolve with the relationship, but should never be used to ignore doubts, discomfort, or boundary violations.
Aftercare, reflection, and open conversations are a structural part of this.
Blanket consent is generally not recommended for beginners to BDSM. The risk of misinterpretation, dependency, or abuse of power is greater when experience and self-confidence are still developing.
Related terms blanket consent
CNC (Consent Non Consent)
Consensual
Consent
No go
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