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DefinitionVacuum refers in BDSM to the creation of negative pressure around (part of) the body, causing the skin or body to be firmly sucked in or immobilized. It is used in various forms of bondage and stimulation and is part of vacuum play. For a detailed explanation, see vacuum play. More information EncyclopediaLetter V
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DefinitionVacuum play is a collective term for BDSM techniques in which air is removed from an enclosed space or cavity, creating pressure, tension, or immobilization. Examples include vacuum beds, vacuum bags, cupping (hollow cups that create a vacuum on the skin), and vacuum pumps for nipples or genitals. Explanation of vacuum play Vacuum play comes in many forms, ranging from
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DefinitionVanilla is the term used within the BDSM world to refer to sex, relationships, or people who do not engage in BDSM practices. It stands for “ordinary,” non-kinky sexual experiences. Explanation of vanilla The word vanilla is used as a friendly, non-judgmental label to distinguish between BDSM and mainstream sexuality. The metaphor comes from vanilla ice cream: the most “ordinary”
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DefinitionA vaginal hook is a metal BDSM–instrument with a rounded hook shape that is inserted into the vagina and often combined with rope, bondage, or posture control. It is used for intense play, tension, and physical and mental surrender. Explanation of vaginal hook The vaginal hook is similar to the more well-known anal hook, but designed for vaginal use. The
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DefinitionUrolagnia is the formal term for sexual arousal from urine or acts involving urine. Within BDSM, this is usually referred to as wetseks or pee play. For a detailed explanation, see pee play. More information EncyclopediaLetter U
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DefinitionA urethral plug or penis plug is a thin metal or silicone rod that is inserted into the urethra of the penis for sexual stimulation, medical fetish interests, control, or as part of urethral play within BDSM. See penis plug for a full explanation. More information EncyclopediaLetter U
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DefinitionUrethral play is a form of medically-oriented BDSM in which the submissive’s urethra is stimulated or gently dilated in a controlled manner using metal or silicone rods, known as dilators. The practice is known for its intense physical sensations and deep psychological impact. It is also referred to as dilator play or sounding. See Dilator play for a full explanation.
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DefinitionUrbex locations are abandoned buildings or sites that are visited for urban exploration. Within BDSM, the term refers to fantasizing or playing in abandoned places, often because of their raw, forbidden, and exciting nature. In reality, urbex locations are rarely suitable or safe for BDSM sessions. As a backdrop for BDSM photography, however, these locations are often fascinating and inspiring.
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DefinitionA Love egg is a small, vibrating sex toy in the shape of a smooth, rounded “egg” that can be used internally or externally. It is operated via a remote control or app and is popular in BDSM because of the control that the Dominant can exert remotely. Explanation of the Love egg The Love egg is a discreet but
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DefinitionTributes are voluntary financial or material gifts that a sub offers to a dominant within a findom– or D/s dynamic. A tribute is seen as a gesture of honor, recognition, or surrender and is separate from regular payments for services or sessions. Explanation of tributes Within findom (financial domination), tributes form an essential part of the power dynamic. The sub
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