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DefinitionUrbex locations are abandoned buildings or sites that are visited for urban exploration. Within BDSM, the term refers to fantasizing or playing in abandoned places, often because of their raw, forbidden, and exciting nature. In reality, urbex locations are rarely suitable or safe for BDSM sessions. As a backdrop for BDSM photography, however, these locations are often fascinating and inspiring.
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DefinitionA Love egg is a small, vibrating sex toy in the shape of a smooth, rounded “egg” that can be used internally or externally. It is operated via a remote control or app and is popular in BDSM because of the control that the Dominant can exert remotely. Explanation of the Love egg The Love egg is a discreet but
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DefinitionTributes are voluntary financial or material gifts that a sub offers to a dominant within a findom– or D/s dynamic. A tribute is seen as a gesture of honor, recognition, or surrender and is separate from regular payments for services or sessions. Explanation of tributes Within findom (financial domination), tributes form an essential part of the power dynamic. The sub
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DefinitionTransvestism (also know as crossdressing) is the wearing of clothing, makeup, or accessories that are culturally associated with the opposite sex. It is a form of expression and says nothing about a person’s gender identity, sexual preference, or BDSMrole. Explanation of transvestism Transvestism is often seen as playing with outward appearance: someone dresses, moves, or presents themselves in a way
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DefinitionThe term transsexual refers to a person who has taken or wishes to take medical steps to bring their body into line with their experienced gender, such as through hormone treatments or surgery. It is an older term that is now less commonly used than transgender. For a detailed explanation, see Transgender. More information EncyclopediaLetter T
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Definition“In transition” refers to the process whereby a transgender person takes steps to bring their life, body, and appearance more in line with their experienced gender. This can be social, medical, hormonal, or legal, and is different for everyone. Explanation of transition Within the BDSM context, “in transition” simply means that someone is in a phase of change or confirmation
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DefinitionTransgender is an umbrella term for people whose gender identity does not match the sex they were assigned at birth. It is an identity that is separate from sexual preference, fetish or BDSM role. Explanation of transgender Within BDSM, the term transgender is mainly used to indicate how someone identifies themselves in a dynamic or community. It says nothing about
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DefinitionA trampling table is a low, sturdy BDSM piece of furniture – usually made of wood or metal – with an opening in the middle through which the cock and balls of the sub can be inserted. The Dominant can safely stand on top of the table for trampling without their body weight falling on the sub’s torso or ribs,
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DefinitionTrampling is a BDSM practice in which the Dominant stands, walks, or applies pressure with their feet or shoes on the body of the sub. The experience varies from mild sensation to intense pain, depending on weight, position, surface, and footwear. Explanation of trampling Trampling involves a combination of physical stimuli, humiliation, physical strength, and control. The sub experiences the
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DefinitionRope within BDSM is specially selected and processed cord material used for bondage, decorative bindings, or full suspension. The most commonly used materials are jute, hempex, hemp, and cotton. Each material has its own structure, strength, smell, flexibility, and safety requirements. Explanation of rope Rope is a world unto itself within BDSM and shibari. The material you choose determines not
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