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DefinitionTease and denial is a form of erotic play in which the Dominant arouses, stimulates, and brings the sub to a high level of tension, but does not allow them to climax. The game revolves around building desire, increasing control, and reinforcing mental and physical submission. Explanation of tease & denial Tease & denial does not focus on the act
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DefinitionA tawse is a leather striking instrument, usually originating from Scotland, consisting of a sturdy strip of leather split into two or more tongues at the end. It is used for impact play and causes a sharp, intense, and penetrating type of pain. Explanation of tawse The tawse – also known as the Scottish whip – has its origins in
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DefinitionTantra is a spiritual and body-oriented tradition that focuses on attention, breathing, energy, connection, and awareness. Within BDSM, tantra refers to the conscious combination of sexual energy, intimacy, and power play, with attention to the body, emotions, and energetic experience. Explanation of tantra Although tantra is often associated with sexuality, it is essentially about being fully present in the moment.
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DefinitionA hoist is a mechanical lifting system used in BDSM to raise, lower, or position a body or limbs in a controlled manner. A hoist can be operated manually or electrically and is designed exclusively to carry weight safely and stably. Explanation of a hoist In BDSM, a hoist is used for bondage, suspension, or controlled movement of a sub.
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DefinitionA switch is someone who can fulfill both the dominant and the submissive role within BDSM. Depending on the partner, dynamics, mood, or situation, a switch moves between both positions. Explanation of switch A switch is not someone who is “indecisive,” as is sometimes mistakenly thought, but someone who possesses a broad spectrum of desires and energies. Sometimes the dominant
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DefinitionSubspace is a deep, altered state of consciousness that a sub enters during intense play. It is characterized by a feeling of calm, weightlessness, reduced pain perception, strong focus on the Dominant, and an almost trance-like experience of surrender. Explanation of subspace Subspace usually arises from a combination of physical stimuli, emotional connection, and the release of substances produced by
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DefinitionA sublist is a form filled out by the sub prior to an appointment with a Dominant. The list contains personal details, boundaries, no-gos, experience, preferences, medical information, and any fetishes. Sublists are mainly used within the commercial circuit, but are essential for any form of BDSM in order to play safely and responsibly. Explanation of sublist A sublist is
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