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DefinitionPet play is a form of role play within BDSM in which an adult person takes on the role of an animal – such as a dog, cat, pony, puppy, or kitten – and their partner takes on the role of owner, trainer, or caretaker. It is about behavior, dynamics, and experience, not literal animal characteristics. Explanation of pet play
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DefinitionA penis pump is a cylinder with a vacuum system that allows a man to temporarily create extra blood flow in the penis. This can be used for erection support, enlargement, sensitivity play, or specific forms of BDSM. Penis pump explanation A penis pump – also known as a vacuum pump – is a hollow cylinder that is placed over
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DefinitionA penis plug is a thin, metal or silicone rod that is inserted into the urethra of the penis for sexual stimulation, medical fetish, control, or as part of urethral play within BDSM. Penis Plug Explained A penis plug – also known as a urethral plug – is a toy designed specifically for urethral stimulation. It is gently inserted into
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DefinitionPegging is a sexual act in which a woman penetrates a man with a strap-on dildo, usually anal training. Explanation of Pegging Pegging is a form of anal play in which the roles are reversed in a playful or erotic way. The woman wears a harness with a dildo (strap-on) and penetrates the man. This form of play is used
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DefinitionPauline Réage is the pseudonym of French writer Anne Desclos (1907–1998), known as the author of Histoire d’O (The Story of O), an iconic and controversial novel considered one of the most influential BDSMbooks of the 20th century. Explanation Pauline Réage Pauline Réage became world famous for Histoire d’O, a novel published in 1954 that made a deep impression on
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DefinitionA BDSM party is a gathering where people within the BDSM community come together to play, learn, meet new people, or socialize. These can range from informal munches to large play parties or intimate private gatherings. Explanation of party Within the BDSM world, the word party refers to various forms of gathering. Although it often refers to play parties, it
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DefinitionParaphilic infantilism refers to a sexual paraphilia in which an adult experiences sexual arousal by imagining themselves as a baby, toddler, or young child. This occurs exclusively between consenting adults. This experience is also known as AB, ABDL, Adult baby, Ageplay, Baby play, or Infantilism. For a detailed explanation, see Adult Baby. More information EncyclopediaLetter P
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DefinitionPansexual refers to someone who can feel sexually and/or romantically attracted to people regardless of their gender. It is about the person themselves, not their gender identity or biological sex. Explanation of pansexual Pansexuality falls within the spectrum of sexual orientations and is often described as “attraction to people, not gender.” For pansexual individuals, gender does not play a determining
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DefinitionA panic hook is a specially designed hook with a quick-release mechanism that allows ropes, chains, or bondage points to be released instantly and effortlessly, even under tension. The hook is used to safely and controledly terminate bondage. Explanation of panic hook A panic hook – also known as a panic snap – is designed to immediately release a sub
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DefinitionA paddle is a flat, usually wider percussion instrument used in BDSM for spanking, discipline, and impact play. It can be made of wood, leather, plastic, or rubber and delivers a deep, penetrating blow. Explanation of paddle The paddle is one of the better-known BDSM instruments and is often used for spanking, rhythmic impact, or punishment play. Unlike a whip
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