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DefinitionSpiked clothing is BDSMclothing that has small spikes, nails, or metal prongs on the inside, causing the wearer to experience mild to intense pain with every movement. Explanation of prick clothing Prick clothing is designed to cause the body to react continuously. It can be pants, a shirt, a corset, a collar, gloves, or even underwear in which stimuli are
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DefinitionPornography is visual material – photos, videos, or audio – created to arouse sexual excitement. Within the BDSM context, pornography often depicts fantasies, exaggerated roles, and theatrical scenes that are not representative of safe or realistic BDSMpractices. Explanation of pornography Porn plays a huge role in how people view sex and BDSM. For many beginners, it is the first place
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DefinitionPoppers is the collective name for volatile, strong-smelling liquids based on alkyl nitrites that are inhaled to produce a short-lived, relaxing, and tingling sensation. They are sometimes used during anal sex or BDSM to relax muscles and intensify the experience. Explanation of poppers Poppers are usually sold in small bottles. When you open the bottle, the liquid evaporates immediately and
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DefinitionPony play is a form of BDSM role play in which the sub (the “pony”) assumes the role of a horse or pony and the dominant acts as trainer, owner, or rider. The game revolves around body language, discipline, aesthetics, and the fantasy of human-animal transformation. Explanation of pony play Pony play is a rich and versatile form of role
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DefinitionA cleaning slave is a sub who, within a D/s dynamic or during BDSM play, performs household tasks – such as cleaning, tidying up, or polishing – as a form of service, submission, or humiliation, depending on the approach of the Dominant. Explanation of cleaning slave The role of cleaning slave combines practical tasks with submissiveness. For some subs, it
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DefinitionPeople-pleasing is behavior in which a submissive (or sometimes a dominant) focuses on satisfying, relieving, or pleasing the other person, often out of a desire for appreciation, affirmation, or harmony within the D/s dynamic. Explanation of people-pleasing Pleasing is a common phenomenon within BDSM, especially among subs who enjoy giving, serving, and connecting emotionally through care and devotion. It can
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DefinitionPlay piercing is a form of BDSM play in which sterile needles are temporarily inserted through the surface of the skin for sensation, ritual, aesthetics, or emotional experience. The needles are removed after play and usually leave only small, quickly healing puncture marks. Play piercing is also known as needle play. Explanation of play piercing Play piercing is often seen
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DefinitionPee play is a form of sexual experience or BDSM play in which urine plays a role, for example by looking at it, feeling it, smelling it, or coming into contact with it. It falls under the broader category of fetish and fluid play. Explanation of pee play Pee play come in many different forms and degrees, depending on preferences,
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DefinitionA pinwheel is a small, metal BDSMinstrument with a rotating wheel covered in sharp points, designed to deliver controlled, stimulating pain and skin stimulation. Also known as a “Wartenberg wheel,” or “Wheel of pain.” Explanation of pinwheel Pinwheels are often used in sensation play, medical play, or as a build-up to pain sessions. The instrument is rolled over the skin
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DefinitionThe pain threshold is the point at which pain shifts from being pleasant, challenging, or exciting to being too intense, harmful, or mentally overwhelming. In BDSM, it refers to the maximum intensity of pain that a person can safely endure, both physically and emotionally. Explanation of pain threshold Every sub has their own pain threshold. It is not a fixed
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