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DefinitionSM is short for SadoMasochism: the voluntary play between a Dominant and a sub involving pain stimuli, power, surrender and tension. It encompasses both giving (sado) and receiving (maso) pain within a safe, consensual dynamic. Explanation of SM SM is one of the pillars of the modern BDSM spectrum. Whereas the D/s role division revolves around power and submission, SM
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DefinitionThe Slubb is a masturbator for intense penis and ball play, based on a vibrating rubber roller that is rolled over the penis and/or scrotum. It is a mechanical device – a kind of multi-tool – that provides extreme stimulation. Incidentally, the Slubb can be expanded with an attachment for women. Explanation of Slubb The Slubb is a relatively new
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DefinitionA sling is a sturdy, hanging leather BDSM or sex play piece in which a sub is supported horizontally by straps. It creates a comfortable, accessible position for sexual play, medical fantasies, bondage, and extended experiences. Explanation of a sling A sling is a classic piece of furniture in BDSM and fetish studios, but is also increasingly being used at
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DefinitionA slave auction is a playful, consensual role-playing game within the BDSM world in which a sub (male or female) is symbolically ‘auctioned’ to a Dominant. It is a theatrical scene, not an actual transfer of ownership. Explanation slave auction A slave auction is an imaginative form of role play that mainly occurs at BDSM parties, kinky events, munches with
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DefinitionA slave contract is a voluntary, symbolic agreement between a Dominant and a slave, in which agreements, roles, boundaries, and responsibilities within their BDSM dynamic are laid down. The contract has no legal value, but rather emotional and ritual significance. Explanation of a slave contract A slave contract is a document that deepens and reinforces the D/s dynamic. It is
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DefinitionA slapper is a BDSMinstrument consisting of two or more layers of leather, rubber, or synthetic leather that strike each other upon impact. This creates a sharp, slapping sensation with a distinctive sound, without requiring much force. Explanation of a slapper A slapper is a versatile impact instrument that is popular among both novice and experienced BDSM practitioners. Due to
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DefinitioA slave (male submissive) or slave girl (female submissive) is a person who, within a voluntary BDSM dynamic, submits completely to a Dominant. The submission is consensual, conscious, and based on trust, structure, and mutual agreements. Explanation of slave/slave girl The terms slave and slave girl are used within BDSM for submissives who experience a more intense and permanent form
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DefinitionA sissygasm is a specific form of ejaculation during sissification or feminization, in which the orgasm occurs without ejaculation or without the typical male peak. The experience is deeper, more undulating, and strongly connected to the feminine role of the sissy. Explanation of Sissygasm A sissygasm is not a physically different type of orgasm, but for many sissies it feels
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DefinitionSissification is a form of feminization within BDSM in which a male sub is consciously placed in a feminine, hyperfeminine, or exaggeratedly girlish role. This is done entirely consensually and can range from mild feminization to in-depth role-playing and training. Explanation of sissification Sissification is a well-known part of feminization play. It revolves around transforming a male submissive into a
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DefinitionA sissy is a male submissive who, within a consensual BDSM or fetish dynamic, experiences pleasure and excitement in feminization, femininity, role reversal, or adopting a playful, submissive, and often exaggerated feminine presentation. Explanation of Sissy Within the BDSM world, the term sissy has its own unique place. It refers to a male sub who consciously and voluntarily chooses a
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