De complete BDSM encyclopedie voor kennis, veiligheid en beleving
DefinitionThe BDSM logo is the international symbol of the BDSM community. It consists of a circle divided into three parts by a curved, twisting symbol reminiscent of a spinning triangle or the Ying Yang symbol. There is a dot in each of the three fields. The design is derived from the traditional triskelion (or triskele), an ancient symbol representing movement,
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DefinitionLocktober is an annual BDSMevent in which men (usually subs) are kept chaste throughout the month of October using a chastity belt or cock cage. The name is a combination of lock (to lock up) and October. The goal is to strengthen self-control, dedication, and mental surrender within a D/s dynamic. Explanation of Locktober Locktober started as a playful challenge
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DefinitionCorporal punishment or castigation is a form of physical punishment that inflicts pain or discomfort on the body. Within BDSM, it refers to the consensual use of physical punishment such as hitting, spanking, whipping, or other forms of impact, with the aim of providing sensation, discipline, emotional release, or reinforcement of the D/s dynamic. Explanation of corporal punishment Although the
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DefinitionWithin BDSM, the term lifestyle refers to a way of life in which BDSM is not just a game or sexual preference, but an essential part of a person’s identity, values, and daily experience. A lifestyleDom(me) or lifestylesub experiences the D/s dynamic not only in the bedroom, but also in attitude, communication, and energy outside of play. Explanation of lifestyle
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DefinitionLove balls or Ben-Wa balls (also known as vaginal balls, pleasure marbles or geisha love balls) are small, round balls that are inserted into the vagina for sexual stimulation, pelvic floor training, or arousal. Within BDSM, they are often used as part of control, playground, or humiliation games. For a detailed explanation, see Ben Wa balls. More information EncyclopediaLetter L
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DefinitionLesbian means that a woman feels emotionally, romantically, and/or sexually attracted to other women. Within BDSM, it refers to women who (exclusively or otherwise) play with, love, or enter into a D/s relationship with other women. Explanation of lesbian In the BDSM world, the concept of lesbian often has a deeper meaning than just sexual preference. Many women experience a
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DefinitionLeather is a processed natural product derived from animal skin (usually cowhide), which is often used in BDSM for clothing, accessories, furniture, and bondageequipment. It symbolizes strength, dominance, sensuality, and durability, and its scent, texture, and sound have given it an almost ritualistic significance in BDSM culture. Explanation of leather Leather is a material that has been associated with power
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DefinitionA latex bed, also known as a vacuum bed, is a BDSM piece of furniture in which a person is enclosed between two layers of latex. Using a vacuum cleaner or pump, the air is sucked out of the chamber, causing the latex to tighten around the body and creating an intense combination of immobilization, pressure, and sensory focus. Explanation
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DefinitionLatex is an elastic material based on natural rubber that is widely used in BDSM for clothing and accessories. It fits snugly around the body, accentuates curves, and gives a shiny, dominant look that is often associated with fetishism and control. Explanation of latex Latex offers a unique combination of aesthetics and experience. The material feels tight, warm, and slightly
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DefinitionSmall Penis Humiliation (abbreviated SPH) is a form of humiliation play within BDSMin which the Dominant belittles or mocks the sub because of the (perceived) small size of his penis. The goal is not physical pain, but mental and emotional stimulation through humiliation, control, and playing on vulnerability. Explanation of SPH SPH is a specific branch of humiliation play in
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